Showing posts with label physical disability. Show all posts
Showing posts with label physical disability. Show all posts
Thursday, June 16, 2016
Dad abducts infant son from mom and takes him out of state; batters him so badly the baby is left with severe disabilities (Tallapoosa County, Alabama)
See link below for full story. Father JAMES MCINVALE JR. essentially abducted the baby from the mother in Michigan and took him to Alabama. Now Daddy is on trial for severely abusing the baby, who has been left with severe disabilities. Daddy blames his own Daddy. While they squabble, the mother is left to grieve over a baby who is severely brain damaged, with up to 200 seizures a day.
http://www.alexcityoutlook.com/2016/06/14/trial-for-father-accused-of-abusing-his-4-month-old-son-begins/
http://www.alexcityoutlook.com/2016/06/14/trial-for-father-accused-of-abusing-his-4-month-old-son-begins/
Friday, March 4, 2016
Custodial dad who beat 8-year-old son so badly the boy is now disabled ALSO beat the mother so bad she was driven out of the home (Nigeria)
Gosh, don't you just love the passive tense? Mom "was forced to flee his home due to domestic violence." Let's rewrite this with active tense verbs, shall we? How about this: her sh**head husband beat her so badly she was forced to flee the home to save her life. And then a corrupt legal system refused to arrest the man who assaulted her, so he retained control and custody over the children.
So what happens when you grant a violent father who beat their mother custody of her children? TA DA! He beats the children too! So now this boy is apparently permanently disabled and in a wheelchair. Who would have thunk it?
Now the sh**head is getting treatment for his high blood pressure (poor dear!) while the mother got nothing. Sickening.
Dad is identified as ALEX OKAFOR.
http://pulse.ng/gist/child-abuse-update-father-who-brutalised-8-yr-old-son-in-abuja-arrested-says-he-did-it-for-love-id4761791.html
Father who brutalised 8-yr-old son in Abuja arrested; says he did it for love
The man who brutalised his son in Abuja said he did that because of his deep love for the boy.
Published: 10.54
Isaac Dachen
The man who brutalised his 8-year-old son, Chukwuma Okafor, using a pestle to break his leg and hand in the process in Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory, has been arrested after a lot of outrage and media coverage of the dastardly act.
The man who has been identified as Alex Okafor, a 45-year-old resident of Gbazango village in Kubwa, a satellite town in the FCT, however, told the police that it was his love for his son that made him beat him up that much that he was left in a wheelchair in the Kubwa General Hospital.
Okafor added that he chose to discipline his son that way out of his deep love for him because he stole meat out of four packs of food and also refused to do his home work.
A police source narrated that Okafor alleged that he had bought food for his four children but Chukwuma decided to steal all the meat in the food packs meant for his siblings.
“The suspect added that when he asked the boy, he denied and he (father) had to go back to the restaurant to accuse them of giving him food without meat,” the source said.
It was also gathered that Okafor is a single father as his wife, the mother of the children, was forced to flee his home due to domestic violence.
The Kubwa Divisional Police Officer (DPO), Chief Superintendent Nuruddeen Sabo, confirmed the arrest of the suspect, saying he is presently under police custody at the Kubwa General Hospital where he is receiving treatment having complained of high blood pressure.
So what happens when you grant a violent father who beat their mother custody of her children? TA DA! He beats the children too! So now this boy is apparently permanently disabled and in a wheelchair. Who would have thunk it?
Now the sh**head is getting treatment for his high blood pressure (poor dear!) while the mother got nothing. Sickening.
Dad is identified as ALEX OKAFOR.
http://pulse.ng/gist/child-abuse-update-father-who-brutalised-8-yr-old-son-in-abuja-arrested-says-he-did-it-for-love-id4761791.html
Father who brutalised 8-yr-old son in Abuja arrested; says he did it for love
The man who brutalised his son in Abuja said he did that because of his deep love for the boy.
Published: 10.54
Isaac Dachen
The man who brutalised his 8-year-old son, Chukwuma Okafor, using a pestle to break his leg and hand in the process in Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory, has been arrested after a lot of outrage and media coverage of the dastardly act.
The man who has been identified as Alex Okafor, a 45-year-old resident of Gbazango village in Kubwa, a satellite town in the FCT, however, told the police that it was his love for his son that made him beat him up that much that he was left in a wheelchair in the Kubwa General Hospital.
Okafor added that he chose to discipline his son that way out of his deep love for him because he stole meat out of four packs of food and also refused to do his home work.
A police source narrated that Okafor alleged that he had bought food for his four children but Chukwuma decided to steal all the meat in the food packs meant for his siblings.
“The suspect added that when he asked the boy, he denied and he (father) had to go back to the restaurant to accuse them of giving him food without meat,” the source said.
It was also gathered that Okafor is a single father as his wife, the mother of the children, was forced to flee his home due to domestic violence.
The Kubwa Divisional Police Officer (DPO), Chief Superintendent Nuruddeen Sabo, confirmed the arrest of the suspect, saying he is presently under police custody at the Kubwa General Hospital where he is receiving treatment having complained of high blood pressure.
Tuesday, March 3, 2015
Dad sentenced for abusing 5-month-old son; baby has permanent disabilities (Virginia Beach, Virginia)
Dads with a "prior conviction of assault and battery of a family member" probably don't make the best infant caregivers.
Dad is identified as CHARLES ADAM POTTER.
http://wavy.com/2015/03/02/father-sentenced-for-shaking-baby-causing-brain-damage/
Father sentenced for shaking baby, causing brain damage
By Catherine Rogers Published: March 2, 2015, 4:55 pm
VIRGINIA BEACH, Va. (WAVY) — A Virginia Beach man will spend the next three decades in prison for abusing his 5-month-old son to the point of permanent brain damage.
In Virginia Beach Circuit Court Monday, 32-year-old Charles Adam Potter was sentenced to a 30-year prison term for aggravated malicious wounding and child abuse/neglect. The punishment was much greater than the maximum 12-year term recommend by Virginia State Sentencing Guidelines, according to Macie Pridgen with the Office of the Commonwealth’s Attorney.
On October 24, 2012, Potter and his wife took their son to the CHKD emergency room in Norfolk and told doctors they heard popping noises in his back, according to the Commonwealth’s evidence. Medical scans showed the child’s ribs had been fractured, and a physician’s evaluation revealed evidence of bleeding in the infant’s brain.
Doctors determined the injuries were the result of the baby having been shaken and caused him to develop cerebral palsy. The child “will suffer from physical and intellectual defects for the remainder of his life,” Pridgen said.
Potter was arrested the next month, and during a recorded phone call from the Virginia Beach Correctional Center, he admitted to his wife that he “snapped” when he couldn’t calm their son down.
Potter, who has a prior conviction of assault and battery of a family member, filed an Alford plea this past November. An Alford plea is a type of guilty plea wherein the suspect admits only that the prosecution has enough evidence to persuade a jury to convict him.
Potter physically abused causing severe, permanent injuries to the child’s physical and intellectual well-being.
Dad is identified as CHARLES ADAM POTTER.
http://wavy.com/2015/03/02/father-sentenced-for-shaking-baby-causing-brain-damage/
Father sentenced for shaking baby, causing brain damage
By Catherine Rogers Published: March 2, 2015, 4:55 pm
VIRGINIA BEACH, Va. (WAVY) — A Virginia Beach man will spend the next three decades in prison for abusing his 5-month-old son to the point of permanent brain damage.
In Virginia Beach Circuit Court Monday, 32-year-old Charles Adam Potter was sentenced to a 30-year prison term for aggravated malicious wounding and child abuse/neglect. The punishment was much greater than the maximum 12-year term recommend by Virginia State Sentencing Guidelines, according to Macie Pridgen with the Office of the Commonwealth’s Attorney.
On October 24, 2012, Potter and his wife took their son to the CHKD emergency room in Norfolk and told doctors they heard popping noises in his back, according to the Commonwealth’s evidence. Medical scans showed the child’s ribs had been fractured, and a physician’s evaluation revealed evidence of bleeding in the infant’s brain.
Doctors determined the injuries were the result of the baby having been shaken and caused him to develop cerebral palsy. The child “will suffer from physical and intellectual defects for the remainder of his life,” Pridgen said.
Potter was arrested the next month, and during a recorded phone call from the Virginia Beach Correctional Center, he admitted to his wife that he “snapped” when he couldn’t calm their son down.
Potter, who has a prior conviction of assault and battery of a family member, filed an Alford plea this past November. An Alford plea is a type of guilty plea wherein the suspect admits only that the prosecution has enough evidence to persuade a jury to convict him.
Potter physically abused causing severe, permanent injuries to the child’s physical and intellectual well-being.
Sunday, February 1, 2015
Dad pleads guilty to 2nd-degree murder in scalding death of disabled 14-month-old son (Little Rock, Arkansas)
Dad is identified as JOSEPH DWAYNE JOHNSON.
http://www.knoe.com/home/headlines/-Little-Rock-father-accepts-plea-deal-in-sons-2013-death-290335981.html
Little Rock father accepts plea deal in son's 2013 death
Posted: Fri 10:48 AM, Jan 30, 2015 By: Courtney Collins
A Little Rock man has taken a plea deal in the 2013 hot bath death of his disabled toddler.
LITTLE ROCK, Ark. (KNOE 8 News/AP) - A Little Rock man has taken a plea deal in the 2013 hot bath death of his disabled toddler.
24-year-old Joseph Dwayne Johnson accepted a 40-year prison sentence Thursday for fatally scalding his 14-month-old son. He has pleaded guilty to a reduced charge of second-degree murder.
Authorities say emergency medical responders arrived at Johnson's home after receiving a call from the boy's mother, and found the child's skin sloughing off. They say the toddler had second- and third-degree burns covering over 50 percent of his body. He was taken to a hospital, where he later died.
According to court documents, the boy had unspecified, severe birth defects, forcing him to be hospitalized for the first 13 months of his life and requiring him to have a feeding tube.
http://www.knoe.com/home/headlines/-Little-Rock-father-accepts-plea-deal-in-sons-2013-death-290335981.html
Little Rock father accepts plea deal in son's 2013 death
Posted: Fri 10:48 AM, Jan 30, 2015 By: Courtney Collins
A Little Rock man has taken a plea deal in the 2013 hot bath death of his disabled toddler.
LITTLE ROCK, Ark. (KNOE 8 News/AP) - A Little Rock man has taken a plea deal in the 2013 hot bath death of his disabled toddler.
24-year-old Joseph Dwayne Johnson accepted a 40-year prison sentence Thursday for fatally scalding his 14-month-old son. He has pleaded guilty to a reduced charge of second-degree murder.
Authorities say emergency medical responders arrived at Johnson's home after receiving a call from the boy's mother, and found the child's skin sloughing off. They say the toddler had second- and third-degree burns covering over 50 percent of his body. He was taken to a hospital, where he later died.
According to court documents, the boy had unspecified, severe birth defects, forcing him to be hospitalized for the first 13 months of his life and requiring him to have a feeding tube.
Friday, October 10, 2014
Dad arrested for assaulting disabled son (Brunswick County, North Carolina)
Dad is identified as WESLEY BRYANT.
http://www.wwaytv3.com/2014/10/09/deputies-man-assaults-handicapped-son
Deputies: Man assaults handicapped son
Submitted by Elizabeth Bynum on Thu, 10/09/2014 - 2:18pm.
BRUNSWICK COUNTY, NC (WWAY) -- The father of a handicapped child is accused of assaulting his son.
According to an arrest warrant, Brunswick County investigators said Wesley Bryant grabbed his handicapped son by the neck twice, picking him up and throwing him back down into his wheelchair.
Deputies said the incident happened Tuesday; Bryant was arrested Wednesday.
The child, who is less than 16 years old, had scrapes and other injuries to his calf and elbow, the warrant said.
Bryant is charged with assault on a handicapped person and child abuse; both are misdemeanor charges.
http://www.wwaytv3.com/2014/10/09/deputies-man-assaults-handicapped-son
Deputies: Man assaults handicapped son
Submitted by Elizabeth Bynum on Thu, 10/09/2014 - 2:18pm.
BRUNSWICK COUNTY, NC (WWAY) -- The father of a handicapped child is accused of assaulting his son.
According to an arrest warrant, Brunswick County investigators said Wesley Bryant grabbed his handicapped son by the neck twice, picking him up and throwing him back down into his wheelchair.
Deputies said the incident happened Tuesday; Bryant was arrested Wednesday.
The child, who is less than 16 years old, had scrapes and other injuries to his calf and elbow, the warrant said.
Bryant is charged with assault on a handicapped person and child abuse; both are misdemeanor charges.
Monday, April 21, 2014
Dad gets 20 years for assaulting 8-week-old son; baby has life-long disabilities (Cobb County, Georgia)
Dad is identified as JOSEPH RUCKER MCFALL.
http://marietta.patch.com/groups/police-and-fire/p/cobb-father-to-serve-20-years-in-babys-battery
Cobb Father to Serve 20 Years in Baby’s Battery
Joseph Rucker McFall admitted that in October 2012 he inflicted blunt-force injuries to the child’s head, fractured bones in both of the baby’s arms, and also fractured a rib.
Posted by Hunt Archbold (Editor) , April 21, 2014 at 04:45 PM
Cobb District Attorney Vic Reynolds announced Monday that a Cobb father will spend 20 years in prison for life-long injuries he inflicted on his 8-week-old son.
Joseph Rucker McFall, 31, of Austell, pleaded guilty on April 17 to five counts of aggravated battery against the child. He admitted that in October 2012 he inflicted blunt-force injuries to the child’s head, fractured bones in both of the baby’s arms, and also fractured a rib.
“By pleading guilty, Mr. McFall is taking responsibility for actions that were not isolated to a single incident on a single day,” Susan Treadaway, the assistant district attorney prosecuting the case, said in a release.
The child’s mother, who has filed for divorce from McFall, spoke during last Thursday’s hearing, and gave an emotional description of the injuries to the child that are believed to be life-long and the struggle she has every day in caring for the child.
The boy is now 20 months old. He is legally blind, and it is believed that he will never be able to walk, talk or behave normally.
McFall spoke briefly during the hearing and maintained that the child’s injuries were accidental.
But Cobb Superior Court Judge James G. Bodiford told McFall his actions were “unspeakable.”
“It’s not an accident. What you’ve done is give a life sentence to your son, and to your son’s mother,” Judge Bodiford said, before sentencing him to the state’s recommendation of 30 years, with 20 years to serve in custody.
McFall, who has remained in custody since his arrest Oct. 30, 2012, had been scheduled to go to trial on April 28.
http://marietta.patch.com/groups/police-and-fire/p/cobb-father-to-serve-20-years-in-babys-battery
Cobb Father to Serve 20 Years in Baby’s Battery
Joseph Rucker McFall admitted that in October 2012 he inflicted blunt-force injuries to the child’s head, fractured bones in both of the baby’s arms, and also fractured a rib.
Posted by Hunt Archbold (Editor) , April 21, 2014 at 04:45 PM
Cobb District Attorney Vic Reynolds announced Monday that a Cobb father will spend 20 years in prison for life-long injuries he inflicted on his 8-week-old son.
Joseph Rucker McFall, 31, of Austell, pleaded guilty on April 17 to five counts of aggravated battery against the child. He admitted that in October 2012 he inflicted blunt-force injuries to the child’s head, fractured bones in both of the baby’s arms, and also fractured a rib.
“By pleading guilty, Mr. McFall is taking responsibility for actions that were not isolated to a single incident on a single day,” Susan Treadaway, the assistant district attorney prosecuting the case, said in a release.
The child’s mother, who has filed for divorce from McFall, spoke during last Thursday’s hearing, and gave an emotional description of the injuries to the child that are believed to be life-long and the struggle she has every day in caring for the child.
The boy is now 20 months old. He is legally blind, and it is believed that he will never be able to walk, talk or behave normally.
McFall spoke briefly during the hearing and maintained that the child’s injuries were accidental.
But Cobb Superior Court Judge James G. Bodiford told McFall his actions were “unspeakable.”
“It’s not an accident. What you’ve done is give a life sentence to your son, and to your son’s mother,” Judge Bodiford said, before sentencing him to the state’s recommendation of 30 years, with 20 years to serve in custody.
McFall, who has remained in custody since his arrest Oct. 30, 2012, had been scheduled to go to trial on April 28.
Saturday, April 19, 2014
Dad to stand trial for murder for 2005 assault of 6-week-old son (San Diego, California)
Hmm. Notice what is missing in this account. We're told that the baby was living "with the defendant" at the time of the assault, when the victim was only 6-weeks old. Then the baby was put up for adoption.
So what happened to the person who gave birth to this baby, commonly known as the mother? Totally erased from the story as if she had never existed. Was BILLY JOE STRINGFIELD a single dad? Why and how? And what happened to Mom?
http://www.10news.com/news/ramona-father-to-stand-trial-in-sons-murder
Father to stand trial in Ramona son's murder
Posted: Apr 18, 2014 Updated: 23 hours ago
SAN DIEGO - The biological father of a Ramona boy who suffered serious brain injuries as an infant and died as a blind and bedridden 6-year-old must stand trial on charges of murder and involuntary manslaughter, a judge ruled today.
Billy Joe Stringfield, also known as Billy Joe Springfield, is accused in the death of Samuel Dahlke. The child died at his adoptive family's home in Ramona in November 2011.
An autopsy determined Samuel died from the aftereffects of a head injury he suffered when he was about 6 weeks old, authorities said.
Stringfield was convicted of misdemeanor child abuse in 2006. The then 23-year-old defendant was sentenced to four years’ probation.
Authorities said Samuel was violently shaken in 2005 while living with the defendant in San Diego's Golden Hill neighborhood. The child's name was changed to Dahlke following his adoption.
Following a preliminary hearing today, Judge Joan Weber found that enough evidence was presented for Stringfield to stand trial. A status conference was set for July 1.
So what happened to the person who gave birth to this baby, commonly known as the mother? Totally erased from the story as if she had never existed. Was BILLY JOE STRINGFIELD a single dad? Why and how? And what happened to Mom?
http://www.10news.com/news/ramona-father-to-stand-trial-in-sons-murder
Father to stand trial in Ramona son's murder
Posted: Apr 18, 2014 Updated: 23 hours ago
SAN DIEGO - The biological father of a Ramona boy who suffered serious brain injuries as an infant and died as a blind and bedridden 6-year-old must stand trial on charges of murder and involuntary manslaughter, a judge ruled today.
Billy Joe Stringfield, also known as Billy Joe Springfield, is accused in the death of Samuel Dahlke. The child died at his adoptive family's home in Ramona in November 2011.
An autopsy determined Samuel died from the aftereffects of a head injury he suffered when he was about 6 weeks old, authorities said.
Stringfield was convicted of misdemeanor child abuse in 2006. The then 23-year-old defendant was sentenced to four years’ probation.
Authorities said Samuel was violently shaken in 2005 while living with the defendant in San Diego's Golden Hill neighborhood. The child's name was changed to Dahlke following his adoption.
Following a preliminary hearing today, Judge Joan Weber found that enough evidence was presented for Stringfield to stand trial. A status conference was set for July 1.
Monday, January 6, 2014
Non-custodial mom arrested for not returning teen sons to abusive custodial father (Sioux City, Iowa)
UNNAMED DAD. Since this piece appears in a Native American publication, it emphasizes the discrimination against the Sioux mother. Not explored is the systematic discrimination against all mothers alleging abuse against a father, especially a custodial father.
http://indiancountrytodaymedianetwork.com/2014/01/06/sioux-mother-rescues-abused-children-faces-arrest-152971
Sioux Mother Rescues Abused Children, Faces Arrest
Stephanie Woodard 1/6/14
The emergency room doctor was furious at what he had seen, recalled Audre’y Eby, who is Rosebud Sioux and the mother of disabled 16-year-old twins. One of her sons, who is blind and autistic, squirmed on the examination-room table, screaming, “Ow, ow, it hurts!” The doctor had found livid red and purple bruises covering his penis and scrotum, according to the Nebraska hospital’s records. Those injuries would soon lead to an arrest warrant for the mother—not because she had caused the harm, but because she did not return her son, along with his wheelchair-bound twin, to their abusers.
Indian child welfare expert Frank LaMere called the twins’ situation more extreme than any he’d seen in his many years of work in the field. “These boys are suffering,” said LaMere, who is Winnebago and the director of Four Directions Community Center, in Sioux City, Iowa.
The day before the ER visit, Eby, who is 45, drove from the Nebraska farm where she lives with her husband, Faron, to pick up her boys from their father in Iowa. It was early August of 2013, and she was going to have them for the once-a-month weekend visit the courts allow her. The boys’ father is Eby’s ex-husband; he has physical custody of the kids, and his live-in girlfriend is their primary caretaker. Eby and the boys are Native, and the father and his girlfriend are white—facts that LaMere says overshadow decisions that social-services professionals and the courts make on the children’s behalf.
During the five-hour drive to Nebraska, both twins complained. Eby put the grumbling down to the road trip—a long one for such special-needs kids. The sighted twin has cerebral palsy and can suffer painful muscle spasms, and his brother has residual discomfort from a vehicle accident he was in with his father a few years ago. “We stop for breaks, but it’s a lot of sitting still,” Eby said.
The next day, the blind twin began complaining again, and Eby saw blood in his overnight diaper. Alarmed, she and Faron loaded both boys into their car and headed for the ER. After the exam, at a moment when only health-care personnel were present, the doctor took the opportunity to ask his patient, “Who did this to you?” The child named his father’s girlfriend. The doctor questioned the sighted twin, who confirmed his brother’s story.
The doctor told Eby that the injuries were consistent with being kicked in the groin. He immediately called Nebraska’s Department of Health and Human Services to report alleged child abuse, hospital records show. Eby says the physician also warned her that if she didn’t keep the boys until their wellbeing could be guaranteed in Iowa, he’d have to report her for exposing children to an unsafe situation: “He said Nebraska law required him to do that.”
Eby’s fateful decision to keep her kids in Nebraska soon led to an Iowa judge issuing a warrant for her arrest. She is trapped between the laws of two states and fearful for her sons’ safety.
The Nebraska doctor’s report launched an extensive investigation by Iowa’s Child Protective Services (CPS). The investigation included another physical exam and interviews of social workers, teachers and others who’d interacted with the twins. The boys participated in a Telemed closed-circuit TV interview observed by social-services and law-enforcement personnel in Iowa and Nebraska. (The twins’ names, and that of their father, whose last name they bear, are being withheld to protect the children’s privacy. All official documents quoted here were obtained under Iowa law.)
Both children claimed the kicking occurred after the blind twin was discovered masturbating. He tells the interviewer that his dad had once threatened that “he’s gonna cut my privates off” for doing that. At one point, the boy begs, “Please help me. I’m scared.”
The investigation led to a determination that the father’s girlfriend caused the groin injuries, which means the abuse was “founded.” The father and girlfriend already had several abuse and neglect determinations between them. CPS gave the twins its highest score for risk of abuse and recommended a criminal investigation.
The girlfriend has appealed the most recent abuse finding, according to Iowa Department of Human Services (DHS) documents. No charges appear to have been filed against her. She claimed the boy did the damage to himself and told CPS, “I love the boys and would never do anything to hurt either one of them.”
The father told ICTMN that whatever happened didn’t happen in Iowa and that the couple would appeal more of the abuse and neglect rulings. Over the years, 14 additional allegations have been investigated and dismissed, he noted.
Iowa DHS documents record a startling list of incidents at the father’s home: Among many, the father recently pressed on the wheelchair-bound twin’s nose until it bled, resulting in one of the founded-abuse determinations. On another occasion, the dad poured hot sauce down that boy’s throat while the girlfriend pressed her elbow into his neck to ensure he swallowed it. A social worker recounts watching the father smash a sandwich onto the blind boy’s forehead, purportedly to get him to eat his lunch. The girlfriend has stuffed a cloth down one boy’s throat to silence him. Punishments include cold showers.
Social workers describe quasi-military discipline. “I’m a veteran, and I'm trying to instill values like honor, loyalty and courage in my children,” the father said. “If that’s wrong, then a lot of parents are wrong.”
Judy Yellowbank, who is Winnebago and the program director at Four Directions Community Center, likened the twins’ treatment to torture. She charged that there’s a double standard in child welfare. “Native parents would be behind bars if they had committed the child abuse and neglect that these two white caregivers have,” Yellowbank said.
Following the recent kicking incident and subsequent abuse finding, Iowa DHS recommended returning the twins to their father’s home, with the caveat that the live-in girlfriend no longer be primary caregiver. When asked how that set-up would work from a practical point of view, the father refused to answer.
One of Eby’s attorneys, Judy Freking, of LeMars, Iowa, asked, “What is the purpose of a child-abuse investigation if, upon concluding that abuse occurred, DHS does not get involved, and DHS does not offer any services to correct the problem that led to the abuse of these boys?”
The father is determined to get the kids back, saying Iowa can provide them more services than rural Nebraska, where the Ebys’ farm is. He recently went to Iowa juvenile court, claiming that his ex-wife was keeping the boys in Nebraska because of “extreme hostility” toward his girlfriend. The judge agreed, writing in an order issued this past September, “It’s apparent this animosity has been a factor.” The judge noted the father’s claim that he had “fully and properly cared for the boys.” The order does not mention the founded abuse and neglect rulings or any criminal investigation.
In October, a district court judge issued an arrest warrant for Eby. She learned of it when it pinged into her email from the Iowa courts’ online system. “I couldn’t cry because my sons were here. I called Faron. He came home from work and sat with the boys, so I could get myself together. Faron has been such a powerful support in all this. We both want the boys living on the farm with us.”
After Eby and the boys’ biological father separated in 2003, when the boys were six, she cared for them. When they turned 12, she thought they should get to know their father. “At the time it seemed like a reasonable idea,” Eby recalled. As the problems in the father’s home mounted, she fought to get the boys back, succeeding briefly in 2011. Through all the abuse and neglect findings, Iowa DHS documents reveal, the agency’s goal has generally been to reunite the twins with their father, and the courts have concurred. He receives their social-security and other subsidies.
Attorney Freking wondered if the situation would have played out similarly if Eby had committed the abuse. LaMere has an answer, and it’s simple: No. He said that Eby’s situation is emblematic of the double standard Yellowbank described. Indian parents are expected to leap enormous hurdles to keep their kids—with no second chances and no benefit of the doubt, said LaMere.
“It does appear that Audre’y and her ex-husband aren’t on equal footing in terms of Iowa DHS recommendations to the courts,” said Freking. ) One of Audre’y Eby’s twin sons, who has cerebral palsy, receives stitches in an Iowa emergency room. The 16-year-old and his twin brother live with their father and his girlfriend. According to court records, the girlfriend sent the teen shopping alone in his wheelchair. He got lost and tipped off a curb, gashing his forehead. The incident resulted in one of several abuse and neglect findings for the father and his girlfriend. (Courtesy Audre'y Eby)
Patterns in Indian child welfare
Recently, Nebraska Department of Health and Human Services did a home study that confirmed Eby and her husband provide her twins with a good home. However, past turbulence in Eby’s life, including drug involvement as a young woman, may be why Iowa won’t grant her primary custody. “Audre’y has left those problems behind, she’s a good mother, and her home study is positive—but that’s not good enough,” said LaMere. “Many of us Native people have lived tough lives, and as far as the system is concerned, anything we’ve been involved with follows us forever. We are not allowed to grow and change.”
The phenomenon is common in Indian child welfare, LaMere continued. “I see it in meetings I attend with Native parents. The parent has solved the problem that caused the children to be taken away. Perhaps it hasn’t been an issue for years. But that’s never good enough. At one meeting, a social worker announced she’d found dirty dishes in the sink at the Native mother’s home, so she shouldn’t get her kids back. I became unglued. I stressed that the mother didn’t lose her children over dirty dishes, and they couldn’t be kept from her for this reason.”
The problem has its roots in history. Federal policy long supported forcibly assimilating Native people as a way to solve the “Indian problem.” Starting in the late 1800s, Native children were sent to government- and church-run boarding schools, where “Kill the Indian, save the child,” was the mantra. And many did die—of beatings, starvation and disease. Sexual and emotional abuse led others to commit suicide. The pervasive trauma, touching virtually every Indian family, stalks Native communities to this day.
During the mid-20th century, boarding schools were closed or turned over to the tribes, and the Indian Adoption Project took over as the assimilation mechanism. This federal program, aided by states and churches, swept about a third of Native children into non-Native homes. After hearing much testimony, Congress passed the Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA) in 1978 in an effort to stem the social and cultural holocaust.
ICWA established Indian preferences for placement of Indian children like Eby’s sons, whether they are enrolled tribal members or eligible for enrollment. ICWA allows tribes to intervene on behalf of their children and requires “active” efforts keep Indian kids with Indian families. “Legally, that means more than ‘reasonable’ efforts,” said LaMere. “It means busting your butt to make it happen.”
In the real lives of Native people, it just doesn’t work out that way. “If you’re having any problems with the system, they’ll take your kids anytime they want,” said a Santee Sioux grandfather, whose granddaughter and grandniece died after being adopted out of his family—one at the hands of her new father and the other by drowning.
ICWA may be federal law, but its enforcement takes place county by county, according to LaMere. He described progress in applying the law in one Iowa jurisdiction—Woodbury County, with its large Native population centered in Sioux City. “I have to believe that if Audre’y’s case had been dealt with here, she would have gotten custody of her sons. However, in other parts of Iowa, and in many states, old attitudes persist about Native people.” There’s a sometimes unspoken and sometimes openly acknowledged belief that American Indians can’t or shouldn’t take care of their kids, LaMere said. Neither the Iowa DHS Native Unit, which oversees Native-related cases, nor the Rosebud Sioux Tribe responded to requests for an interview about these issues.
The Iowa courts’ seeming inability to deal even-handedly with Native people causes ambiguities for other agencies, including law enforcement. In a phone interview, local Iowa police chief Dan Kremer, who observed the CPS Telemed interviews related to the blind twin’s ER visit, said at first that some were “out to hang” the father and his girlfriend. “Maybe they need hanging,” Kremer then added, “but so far the courts have not gone after them.” He pointed out that the situation in the home “has been going on for a long time.”
Looking forward
Since the twins have been on the Nebraska farm, they’ve put weight on their once-emaciated frames, and Eby has let their crewcuts grow out. “They look so handsome now!” she said. The other day, she recalled, one son told her, “I don’t feel shrunken any more.” She enjoys seeing them caught up in the rhythms of farm life. “Family comes to visit. We have real sit-down dinners with no TV, and Faron makes root beer floats on Saturday nights.”
Eby called LaMere a critical ally. “He says to focus on the good, pray and be mindful of what we have. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to express the pain of all this, but the love I can.”
LaMere sees a lesson: “The Creator sent us these two boys as teachers—to instruct us to renew our fight to keep our kids safe and our families intact.”
For Eby’s family, the future is uncertain. “Something will change, but I don't know what,” she said. “Somehow, life has to be bearable for my boys. Is there anything else I can do?”
http://indiancountrytodaymedianetwork.com/2014/01/06/sioux-mother-rescues-abused-children-faces-arrest-152971
Sioux Mother Rescues Abused Children, Faces Arrest
Stephanie Woodard 1/6/14
The emergency room doctor was furious at what he had seen, recalled Audre’y Eby, who is Rosebud Sioux and the mother of disabled 16-year-old twins. One of her sons, who is blind and autistic, squirmed on the examination-room table, screaming, “Ow, ow, it hurts!” The doctor had found livid red and purple bruises covering his penis and scrotum, according to the Nebraska hospital’s records. Those injuries would soon lead to an arrest warrant for the mother—not because she had caused the harm, but because she did not return her son, along with his wheelchair-bound twin, to their abusers.
Indian child welfare expert Frank LaMere called the twins’ situation more extreme than any he’d seen in his many years of work in the field. “These boys are suffering,” said LaMere, who is Winnebago and the director of Four Directions Community Center, in Sioux City, Iowa.
The day before the ER visit, Eby, who is 45, drove from the Nebraska farm where she lives with her husband, Faron, to pick up her boys from their father in Iowa. It was early August of 2013, and she was going to have them for the once-a-month weekend visit the courts allow her. The boys’ father is Eby’s ex-husband; he has physical custody of the kids, and his live-in girlfriend is their primary caretaker. Eby and the boys are Native, and the father and his girlfriend are white—facts that LaMere says overshadow decisions that social-services professionals and the courts make on the children’s behalf.
During the five-hour drive to Nebraska, both twins complained. Eby put the grumbling down to the road trip—a long one for such special-needs kids. The sighted twin has cerebral palsy and can suffer painful muscle spasms, and his brother has residual discomfort from a vehicle accident he was in with his father a few years ago. “We stop for breaks, but it’s a lot of sitting still,” Eby said.
The next day, the blind twin began complaining again, and Eby saw blood in his overnight diaper. Alarmed, she and Faron loaded both boys into their car and headed for the ER. After the exam, at a moment when only health-care personnel were present, the doctor took the opportunity to ask his patient, “Who did this to you?” The child named his father’s girlfriend. The doctor questioned the sighted twin, who confirmed his brother’s story.
The doctor told Eby that the injuries were consistent with being kicked in the groin. He immediately called Nebraska’s Department of Health and Human Services to report alleged child abuse, hospital records show. Eby says the physician also warned her that if she didn’t keep the boys until their wellbeing could be guaranteed in Iowa, he’d have to report her for exposing children to an unsafe situation: “He said Nebraska law required him to do that.”
Eby’s fateful decision to keep her kids in Nebraska soon led to an Iowa judge issuing a warrant for her arrest. She is trapped between the laws of two states and fearful for her sons’ safety.
The Nebraska doctor’s report launched an extensive investigation by Iowa’s Child Protective Services (CPS). The investigation included another physical exam and interviews of social workers, teachers and others who’d interacted with the twins. The boys participated in a Telemed closed-circuit TV interview observed by social-services and law-enforcement personnel in Iowa and Nebraska. (The twins’ names, and that of their father, whose last name they bear, are being withheld to protect the children’s privacy. All official documents quoted here were obtained under Iowa law.)
Both children claimed the kicking occurred after the blind twin was discovered masturbating. He tells the interviewer that his dad had once threatened that “he’s gonna cut my privates off” for doing that. At one point, the boy begs, “Please help me. I’m scared.”
The investigation led to a determination that the father’s girlfriend caused the groin injuries, which means the abuse was “founded.” The father and girlfriend already had several abuse and neglect determinations between them. CPS gave the twins its highest score for risk of abuse and recommended a criminal investigation.
The girlfriend has appealed the most recent abuse finding, according to Iowa Department of Human Services (DHS) documents. No charges appear to have been filed against her. She claimed the boy did the damage to himself and told CPS, “I love the boys and would never do anything to hurt either one of them.”
The father told ICTMN that whatever happened didn’t happen in Iowa and that the couple would appeal more of the abuse and neglect rulings. Over the years, 14 additional allegations have been investigated and dismissed, he noted.
Iowa DHS documents record a startling list of incidents at the father’s home: Among many, the father recently pressed on the wheelchair-bound twin’s nose until it bled, resulting in one of the founded-abuse determinations. On another occasion, the dad poured hot sauce down that boy’s throat while the girlfriend pressed her elbow into his neck to ensure he swallowed it. A social worker recounts watching the father smash a sandwich onto the blind boy’s forehead, purportedly to get him to eat his lunch. The girlfriend has stuffed a cloth down one boy’s throat to silence him. Punishments include cold showers.
Social workers describe quasi-military discipline. “I’m a veteran, and I'm trying to instill values like honor, loyalty and courage in my children,” the father said. “If that’s wrong, then a lot of parents are wrong.”
Judy Yellowbank, who is Winnebago and the program director at Four Directions Community Center, likened the twins’ treatment to torture. She charged that there’s a double standard in child welfare. “Native parents would be behind bars if they had committed the child abuse and neglect that these two white caregivers have,” Yellowbank said.
Following the recent kicking incident and subsequent abuse finding, Iowa DHS recommended returning the twins to their father’s home, with the caveat that the live-in girlfriend no longer be primary caregiver. When asked how that set-up would work from a practical point of view, the father refused to answer.
One of Eby’s attorneys, Judy Freking, of LeMars, Iowa, asked, “What is the purpose of a child-abuse investigation if, upon concluding that abuse occurred, DHS does not get involved, and DHS does not offer any services to correct the problem that led to the abuse of these boys?”
The father is determined to get the kids back, saying Iowa can provide them more services than rural Nebraska, where the Ebys’ farm is. He recently went to Iowa juvenile court, claiming that his ex-wife was keeping the boys in Nebraska because of “extreme hostility” toward his girlfriend. The judge agreed, writing in an order issued this past September, “It’s apparent this animosity has been a factor.” The judge noted the father’s claim that he had “fully and properly cared for the boys.” The order does not mention the founded abuse and neglect rulings or any criminal investigation.
In October, a district court judge issued an arrest warrant for Eby. She learned of it when it pinged into her email from the Iowa courts’ online system. “I couldn’t cry because my sons were here. I called Faron. He came home from work and sat with the boys, so I could get myself together. Faron has been such a powerful support in all this. We both want the boys living on the farm with us.”
After Eby and the boys’ biological father separated in 2003, when the boys were six, she cared for them. When they turned 12, she thought they should get to know their father. “At the time it seemed like a reasonable idea,” Eby recalled. As the problems in the father’s home mounted, she fought to get the boys back, succeeding briefly in 2011. Through all the abuse and neglect findings, Iowa DHS documents reveal, the agency’s goal has generally been to reunite the twins with their father, and the courts have concurred. He receives their social-security and other subsidies.
Attorney Freking wondered if the situation would have played out similarly if Eby had committed the abuse. LaMere has an answer, and it’s simple: No. He said that Eby’s situation is emblematic of the double standard Yellowbank described. Indian parents are expected to leap enormous hurdles to keep their kids—with no second chances and no benefit of the doubt, said LaMere.
“It does appear that Audre’y and her ex-husband aren’t on equal footing in terms of Iowa DHS recommendations to the courts,” said Freking. ) One of Audre’y Eby’s twin sons, who has cerebral palsy, receives stitches in an Iowa emergency room. The 16-year-old and his twin brother live with their father and his girlfriend. According to court records, the girlfriend sent the teen shopping alone in his wheelchair. He got lost and tipped off a curb, gashing his forehead. The incident resulted in one of several abuse and neglect findings for the father and his girlfriend. (Courtesy Audre'y Eby)
Patterns in Indian child welfare
Recently, Nebraska Department of Health and Human Services did a home study that confirmed Eby and her husband provide her twins with a good home. However, past turbulence in Eby’s life, including drug involvement as a young woman, may be why Iowa won’t grant her primary custody. “Audre’y has left those problems behind, she’s a good mother, and her home study is positive—but that’s not good enough,” said LaMere. “Many of us Native people have lived tough lives, and as far as the system is concerned, anything we’ve been involved with follows us forever. We are not allowed to grow and change.”
The phenomenon is common in Indian child welfare, LaMere continued. “I see it in meetings I attend with Native parents. The parent has solved the problem that caused the children to be taken away. Perhaps it hasn’t been an issue for years. But that’s never good enough. At one meeting, a social worker announced she’d found dirty dishes in the sink at the Native mother’s home, so she shouldn’t get her kids back. I became unglued. I stressed that the mother didn’t lose her children over dirty dishes, and they couldn’t be kept from her for this reason.”
The problem has its roots in history. Federal policy long supported forcibly assimilating Native people as a way to solve the “Indian problem.” Starting in the late 1800s, Native children were sent to government- and church-run boarding schools, where “Kill the Indian, save the child,” was the mantra. And many did die—of beatings, starvation and disease. Sexual and emotional abuse led others to commit suicide. The pervasive trauma, touching virtually every Indian family, stalks Native communities to this day.
During the mid-20th century, boarding schools were closed or turned over to the tribes, and the Indian Adoption Project took over as the assimilation mechanism. This federal program, aided by states and churches, swept about a third of Native children into non-Native homes. After hearing much testimony, Congress passed the Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA) in 1978 in an effort to stem the social and cultural holocaust.
ICWA established Indian preferences for placement of Indian children like Eby’s sons, whether they are enrolled tribal members or eligible for enrollment. ICWA allows tribes to intervene on behalf of their children and requires “active” efforts keep Indian kids with Indian families. “Legally, that means more than ‘reasonable’ efforts,” said LaMere. “It means busting your butt to make it happen.”
In the real lives of Native people, it just doesn’t work out that way. “If you’re having any problems with the system, they’ll take your kids anytime they want,” said a Santee Sioux grandfather, whose granddaughter and grandniece died after being adopted out of his family—one at the hands of her new father and the other by drowning.
ICWA may be federal law, but its enforcement takes place county by county, according to LaMere. He described progress in applying the law in one Iowa jurisdiction—Woodbury County, with its large Native population centered in Sioux City. “I have to believe that if Audre’y’s case had been dealt with here, she would have gotten custody of her sons. However, in other parts of Iowa, and in many states, old attitudes persist about Native people.” There’s a sometimes unspoken and sometimes openly acknowledged belief that American Indians can’t or shouldn’t take care of their kids, LaMere said. Neither the Iowa DHS Native Unit, which oversees Native-related cases, nor the Rosebud Sioux Tribe responded to requests for an interview about these issues.
The Iowa courts’ seeming inability to deal even-handedly with Native people causes ambiguities for other agencies, including law enforcement. In a phone interview, local Iowa police chief Dan Kremer, who observed the CPS Telemed interviews related to the blind twin’s ER visit, said at first that some were “out to hang” the father and his girlfriend. “Maybe they need hanging,” Kremer then added, “but so far the courts have not gone after them.” He pointed out that the situation in the home “has been going on for a long time.”
Looking forward
Since the twins have been on the Nebraska farm, they’ve put weight on their once-emaciated frames, and Eby has let their crewcuts grow out. “They look so handsome now!” she said. The other day, she recalled, one son told her, “I don’t feel shrunken any more.” She enjoys seeing them caught up in the rhythms of farm life. “Family comes to visit. We have real sit-down dinners with no TV, and Faron makes root beer floats on Saturday nights.”
Eby called LaMere a critical ally. “He says to focus on the good, pray and be mindful of what we have. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to express the pain of all this, but the love I can.”
LaMere sees a lesson: “The Creator sent us these two boys as teachers—to instruct us to renew our fight to keep our kids safe and our families intact.”
For Eby’s family, the future is uncertain. “Something will change, but I don't know what,” she said. “Somehow, life has to be bearable for my boys. Is there anything else I can do?”
Wednesday, May 8, 2013
Dad sentenced for abusing infant son; baby left blind, mute, crippled (Spartanburg, South Carolina)
Dad is identified as JACOB SHATTUCK. No mention of a mother in the home.
http://www.wyff4.com/news/local-news/spartanburg-cherokee-news/baby-left-blind-mute-crippled-father-sentenced/-/9324158/20068282/-/x3xlr5/-/index.html
Baby left blind, mute, crippled; Father sentenced
Jacob Shattuck pleads guilty to child abuse
UPDATED 5:35 PM EDT May 08, 2013
SPARTANBURG COUNTY, S.C. —A Lyman man received a 15-year prison sentence Wednesday after he admitted to abusing his newborn son.
Jacob Shattuck, 22, pleaded guilty to child abuse with great bodily injury.
On July 9, 2012, doctors at Greenville Memorial Hospital told Spartanburg County sheriff’s deputies they were treating a 3-month-old boy who showed signs of being violently shaken. The injuries included bilateral retinal hemorrhages, a subdural hematoma and repeated seizing that last as long as 30-40 minutes per episode.
The baby was hospitalized in the hospital’s pediatric intensive care unit for almost a month. Prosecutors said he will most likely be dependent on others for the balance of his life.
Assistant Solicitor Susan Reese told Judge Cole the abuse left the victim legally blind and he is unable to speak or make any sounds. The baby cannot sit up or crawl.
The child has nearly a dozen appointments per month with doctors and therapists who are assisting with various aspects of his recovery, authorities said.
When deputies confronted Jacob Shattuck with the allegations, he admitted to hurting the baby, and said he knew what he had done was wrong.
Shattuck will serve 80 percent of his sentence before he is eligible for release.
http://www.wyff4.com/news/local-news/spartanburg-cherokee-news/baby-left-blind-mute-crippled-father-sentenced/-/9324158/20068282/-/x3xlr5/-/index.html
Baby left blind, mute, crippled; Father sentenced
Jacob Shattuck pleads guilty to child abuse
UPDATED 5:35 PM EDT May 08, 2013
SPARTANBURG COUNTY, S.C. —A Lyman man received a 15-year prison sentence Wednesday after he admitted to abusing his newborn son.
Jacob Shattuck, 22, pleaded guilty to child abuse with great bodily injury.
On July 9, 2012, doctors at Greenville Memorial Hospital told Spartanburg County sheriff’s deputies they were treating a 3-month-old boy who showed signs of being violently shaken. The injuries included bilateral retinal hemorrhages, a subdural hematoma and repeated seizing that last as long as 30-40 minutes per episode.
The baby was hospitalized in the hospital’s pediatric intensive care unit for almost a month. Prosecutors said he will most likely be dependent on others for the balance of his life.
Assistant Solicitor Susan Reese told Judge Cole the abuse left the victim legally blind and he is unable to speak or make any sounds. The baby cannot sit up or crawl.
The child has nearly a dozen appointments per month with doctors and therapists who are assisting with various aspects of his recovery, authorities said.
When deputies confronted Jacob Shattuck with the allegations, he admitted to hurting the baby, and said he knew what he had done was wrong.
Shattuck will serve 80 percent of his sentence before he is eligible for release.
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