Update to the killer dad and custody list. Though not so much of an update as additional background as this article predates the 2-year-old son's death.
This is one of the more astonishing examples I have ever seen of domestic abuse by proxy. Domestic abuse by proxy is the process by which adept abusers manipulate the police, CPS, the courts, and others in authority to harass, threaten, and abuse the victim FOR THEM.
And after all that he did to Mom in order to gain control over their two-year-old son, what did dad TUSHAMBI EVANS JR. do? He beat him to death.
And still it doesn't end, as the mom no longer has custody of her other kids.
But it gets worse. Turns out Dad was acquitted all charges in November 2013. They figured the kid beat himself to death or something? Sickening but not altogether surprising given the power this father has somehow amassed for himself.
http://archive.news10.net/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=186480
Abused toddler's mom: No one followed up police reports
10:27 PM, Mar 26, 2012
STOCKTON, CA - Jamela Evans and her husband, Tushambi Evans, were known to police in Richmond, Vallejo and Stockton for consistently filing police reports against each other.
On Friday, their 2-year-old son, Tushambi Evans Jr, arrived at Oakland Children's Hospital in critical condition and his father was booked in San Joaquin County Jail for severely beating him.
Jamela Evans said on Saturday that she had warned Richmond police last year that her husband was abusing their child.
"I'm hurting on the inside, because I told police that he was abusing the baby. No one would listen to me," Jamela Evans said.
Richmond Police Supervisor of Investigations, Sgt. Louie Tirona, confirmed the department has an extensive reporting history with the Evans family.
Tirona couldn't release details, but said the couple accused each other of various crimes, but not for child abuse. The reports go as far back as 2009. Tirona said the only arrest was for Jamela Evans in May 2011 for violating a child custody order.
"I got arrested," said Jamela Evans. "[Tushambi] told them I kidnapped the baby when he dropped the baby off to visit. And when he came back I was gone."
In fact, Jamela Evans said she doesn't have any custody rights to her son and Tushambi Evans received a restraining order against her. She claimed her husband secretly filed court orders against her while they were still living together in both Richmond and Vallejo.
"He was going to court on me the whole time without my knowledge and telling the judge that he couldn't find me," Jamela Evans said. "He falsified paperwork stating that his mother served me proof of service at my grandmother's house in Richmond, but while we were living in Vallejo."
Contra Costa County Superior Court could not comment on this specific case, but said family members are allowed to serve court notices. The court said if Jamela Evans never received the court documents, then she needs to retain a lawyer and contest the rulings.
In Vallejo, where the Evans lived together for some time, the Vallejo Police Department said it had one record from Solano County Child Protective Services investigating Jamela Evans.
The report said an anonymous caller told CPS that Jamela Evans was abusing her older child on Jan. 17, 2011. CPS investigated, but did not find any evidence of child abuse and wrote that the caller's accusations were unfounded.
Jamela Evans said after her arrest in May 2011 she moved to Stockton alone and visited her husband and baby often.
On Thursday afternoon, she called Stockton police to report domestic and child abuse when Tushambi Evans was in her home. However, she said she was too afraid to follow through with the report.
"I never opened the door for the officer," Jamela Evans said. "I was afraid to open the door. He kept asking me, 'Why is the police officer here? What do he want?' I told him 'I don't know.'"
When the officer left, Jamela Evans said her husband started beating her. She escaped to a neighbor's house, but Tushambi Evans took off with her car and her son.
The next day, Tushambi Evans Jr. showed up barely alive at Oakland Children's Hospital and his father was arrested for felony child abuse and domestic abuse.
San Joaquin County Child Protective Services now has custody of Jamela Evans' other children.
Jamela Evans said she is pregnant with Tushambi Evans' second child.
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Tuesday, November 4, 2014
Thursday, April 4, 2013
6-year-old boy tells court of torture by custodial dad (Patiala, India)
This is what happens in societies where fathers rights are institutionalized over the rights of mothers. Pieces of sh** like dad BALJIT SINGH get custody, and torture the kids if they even admit to wanting to meet with the mother. Who is the so-called alienator again? More often than not it's the abuser, in a phenomenon known as domestic violence by proxy.
http://www.thehindubusinessline.com/news/6yrold-tells-court-of-torture-by-father-during-divorce-trial/article4570109.ece
6-yr-old tells court of torture by father during divorce trial
PTI
Patiala, Apr 1: A six-year-old boy was allegedly singed with cigarette butts and slashed with a shaving blade by his father who inflicted injuries all over his body.
The harrowing tale of torture was narrated by the child himself in a local court, hearing a divorce case of his parents.
The court was shocked and dismayed to see injury marks on the body of the child and ordered the police to get the child medically examined in the local Government Rajindra Hospital.
The child told the doctors yesterday that his father Baljit Singh inflicted injuries all over his body.
There were about 16 blade cut marks on different parts of his body, doctors said, adding his back had burn marks caused by cigarette butts.
The parents of the child had filed a divorce case and the court had earlier given custody of the child to the father.
It also directed the accused that the child would be allowed to meet his mother once every month.
When the boy insisted on meeting his mother, Singh was so annoyed that he started torturing the child.
A case has been registered against the accused Baljit Singh at the Patiala Sadar police station under various sections of the IPC, police said, adding, efforts are on to arrest him.
http://www.thehindubusinessline.com/news/6yrold-tells-court-of-torture-by-father-during-divorce-trial/article4570109.ece
6-yr-old tells court of torture by father during divorce trial
PTI
Patiala, Apr 1: A six-year-old boy was allegedly singed with cigarette butts and slashed with a shaving blade by his father who inflicted injuries all over his body.
The harrowing tale of torture was narrated by the child himself in a local court, hearing a divorce case of his parents.
The court was shocked and dismayed to see injury marks on the body of the child and ordered the police to get the child medically examined in the local Government Rajindra Hospital.
The child told the doctors yesterday that his father Baljit Singh inflicted injuries all over his body.
There were about 16 blade cut marks on different parts of his body, doctors said, adding his back had burn marks caused by cigarette butts.
The parents of the child had filed a divorce case and the court had earlier given custody of the child to the father.
It also directed the accused that the child would be allowed to meet his mother once every month.
When the boy insisted on meeting his mother, Singh was so annoyed that he started torturing the child.
A case has been registered against the accused Baljit Singh at the Patiala Sadar police station under various sections of the IPC, police said, adding, efforts are on to arrest him.
Saturday, January 22, 2011
Dad in "custody battle" for 10-month-old baby kicks in door at mom's house, fires shotgun (Louisburg, North Carolina)
Oh sure. Dad MARIO LAMONT SIMMS is one dandy candidate for custody of a 10-month-old baby. Such a stable, loving, personality...NOT.
When are we going to realize that a substantial number of fathers going for custody fit this portrait: A violent, obsessive criminal who is only interesting in controlling and punishing "his woman." Notice that the police had responded to 10 previous domestic violence calls at this address in just the past year--I'm assuming that Daddy was responsible for these "incidents."
The media says Simms was "upset" by the "custody dispute" with his ex-girlfriend, the mother of the 10-month-old child. (Of course, given that this was an ex-girlfriend and not an ex-wife, we also see that he never made any formal commitment to her or the children, and yet he nevertheless demanded "his" father's rights.) So that's why he "allegedly" kicked in the front door and fired his shotgun into the air outside. 'Cause all of this is a great display of his fathering skills, don't you know.
I think Daddy knew very well what he was doing, and you can just about bet he doesn't pull this "crazy" act at work or in other public spaces. No, he reserves the big intimidating displays of Daddy Drama for the homefront--with utter indifference for how the kids might have been traumatized, or whether they might have been "accidentally" killed or injured in all this.
My questions: After ten previous police calls, why was this guy even allowed to be walking around? And why was a guy with this history of violence allowed to terrorize the mother with a custody battle? That's called domestic violence by proxy, friends--i.e. exploiting the family court system to continue and extend your campaign of terror and abuse.
We're lucky that nobody was killed in this ongoing Daddy Drama--this time.
http://www.wral.com/news/news_briefs/story/8986213/
Posted: 11:55 a.m. today
Man charged with firing at home of child, ex-girlfriend
Louisburg, N.C. — A Franklin County man upset by a custody dispute fired a shotgun early Friday into a home where his child and ex-girlfriend were, according to Sheriff Pat Green.
Green said that Mario Lamont Simms, 25, was carrying a shotgun when kicked in the door of his ex-girlfriend's home on Malcolm Neil Path, north of Louisburg, around 4:30 a.m. She hid in a closet and called 911.
Simms fired shots into the air outside the house and fled into the woods when deputies arrived, Green said. He was arrested a short time later.
Three children, ages 9 and 7 years and 10 months, were in the house at the time. No one was injured.
Green said that Simms is the father of the 10-month-old and wanted custody of the baby.
He and his ex-girlfriend are estranged, but Simms had lived at the home previously, the sheriff said. Deputies have responded to 10 domestic incidents at the home in the past year.
Simms was charged with three counts of felony child abuse and one count each of felony assault with a deadly weapon with intent to kill, misdemeanor assault and communicating threats.
He was placed in the Franklin County jail under a $19,000 bond.
When are we going to realize that a substantial number of fathers going for custody fit this portrait: A violent, obsessive criminal who is only interesting in controlling and punishing "his woman." Notice that the police had responded to 10 previous domestic violence calls at this address in just the past year--I'm assuming that Daddy was responsible for these "incidents."
The media says Simms was "upset" by the "custody dispute" with his ex-girlfriend, the mother of the 10-month-old child. (Of course, given that this was an ex-girlfriend and not an ex-wife, we also see that he never made any formal commitment to her or the children, and yet he nevertheless demanded "his" father's rights.) So that's why he "allegedly" kicked in the front door and fired his shotgun into the air outside. 'Cause all of this is a great display of his fathering skills, don't you know.
I think Daddy knew very well what he was doing, and you can just about bet he doesn't pull this "crazy" act at work or in other public spaces. No, he reserves the big intimidating displays of Daddy Drama for the homefront--with utter indifference for how the kids might have been traumatized, or whether they might have been "accidentally" killed or injured in all this.
My questions: After ten previous police calls, why was this guy even allowed to be walking around? And why was a guy with this history of violence allowed to terrorize the mother with a custody battle? That's called domestic violence by proxy, friends--i.e. exploiting the family court system to continue and extend your campaign of terror and abuse.
We're lucky that nobody was killed in this ongoing Daddy Drama--this time.
http://www.wral.com/news/news_briefs/story/8986213/
Posted: 11:55 a.m. today
Man charged with firing at home of child, ex-girlfriend
Louisburg, N.C. — A Franklin County man upset by a custody dispute fired a shotgun early Friday into a home where his child and ex-girlfriend were, according to Sheriff Pat Green.
Green said that Mario Lamont Simms, 25, was carrying a shotgun when kicked in the door of his ex-girlfriend's home on Malcolm Neil Path, north of Louisburg, around 4:30 a.m. She hid in a closet and called 911.
Simms fired shots into the air outside the house and fled into the woods when deputies arrived, Green said. He was arrested a short time later.
Three children, ages 9 and 7 years and 10 months, were in the house at the time. No one was injured.
Green said that Simms is the father of the 10-month-old and wanted custody of the baby.
He and his ex-girlfriend are estranged, but Simms had lived at the home previously, the sheriff said. Deputies have responded to 10 domestic incidents at the home in the past year.
Simms was charged with three counts of felony child abuse and one count each of felony assault with a deadly weapon with intent to kill, misdemeanor assault and communicating threats.
He was placed in the Franklin County jail under a $19,000 bond.
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