Showing posts with label Russia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Russia. Show all posts

Friday, December 14, 2012

Dad put daughter's photos on Russian pedophile website; gets only 18 months in jail (Ipswich, Australia)

Notice that this @$$hole of an UNNAMED DAD gets to keep his privacy and his name out of the paper. But he sure didn't extend the same courtesy to his daughter, the one he pimped out on a child porn site. Nah, he published her real name so the dickheads will pester her forever.

And all this piece of sh** gets is 18 months in prison. Less, if he "behaves." A total outrage.

http://www.qt.com.au/news/dad-put-daughters-pics-on-russian-sex-website/1665883/

Dad put daughter’s pics on Russian sex website

Kate Lemmon | 15th Dec 2012 3:00 AM

A MAN who posted photos of his own daughter on a Russian pedophilia website has been jailed - after her photos were viewed by more than 200,000 people.

Ipswich District Court heard the 50-year-old was a member of the child exploitation website, going under the username "Tempted", and encouraged other men to comment on pictures of his daughter and her friends.

He shared up to 50 photos of his child and others online, publishing her full name, as well as that of two of her friends.

The defendant accessed the site an average of three times a week over 19 months.

He said he was attracted to the girls' "innocence", but his desires "underpinned a much more sinister intention", the court heard. He uploaded secretly-taken photos of his teenage daughter in the shower, as well as other suggestive pictures of two of her friends.

When police from Taskforce Argos raided his home in February this year, he was found to have 50 indecent photos on his computer, including images of girls being violently raped.

The court heard that the man's wife has remained with him, and the daughter has been allowed to live at home despite the police investigation. The Department of Child Safety said it was not necessary to investigate further or intervene in the case.

In court the photos were described as "sick".

Judge Sarah Bradley said it was "inevitable there were still photos out there" of the man's daughter, because in cyberspace it was hard to delete images.

She said his actions were "abhorrent and horrific".

The father was sentenced to 18 months' prison, but will be released in six months on a $500 good behaviour bond for three years. He will also be placed on probation.

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Pedo dad gets custody of 5-year-old son (Norway)

Dad is identified as KURT BERGSETH. Notice that not only does Dad get custody of the younger son, but Mom has been stripped of her parental rights. This is how it works these days. It's okay to be a daddy pedo; it won't affect your rights at all. But heaven help you if you are a protective mother trying to save your child from sexual abuse. 'Cause you will lose EVERYTHING.

Notice that the Norwegian judge didn't even examine the evidence provided by investigators. They don't even pretend to be objective anymore.

http://en.ria.ru/world/20120417/172869798.html

Norwegian Court Gives Child to Alleged Pedophile Father

11:46 17/04/2012
MOSCOW, April 17 (RIA Novosti)
A Norwegian court has ruled to deprive Russian national Irina Bergseth of her parental rights and give her five-year-old son to her Norwegian ex-husband who had allegedly sexually abused the boy, Russian TV channel Rossiya 24 reported on Tuesday.

Last year Irina, a mother of two boys, 5 and 13 years, accused her ex-husband of molestation after her younger son complained about pains in his genitals, saying that it had been his father, Kurt Bergseth, to blame. The woman reported to the Norwegian police but policemen have found no evidence of abuse and gave both children to foster families.

In August 2011, the woman attempted to bring her elder son, who has Russian citizenship, to Russia but they were detained in Poland. Russian child’s ombudsman Pavel Astakhov helped return the boy to Russia. The elder boy also confessed to being sexually molestated by his father.

The court ruled on Tuesday to deprive Bergseth of her parental rights for the younger son and awarded the father custody. The judges also dismissed materials provided by the Russian investigators that show evidence against the father.

“Now I have the right to meet with my child once a year under police supervision, and I’ll have to pay for each meeting 300,000 rubles ($10,000),” Irina told the Russian tabloid Life News. She also said she would have to spend 1.5 million rubles ($50, 000) for appeals procedures in court.

“Termination of her parental rights and refusal to listen to her lawyer is an unjustified and ungrounded violation of her rights,” Astakhov said, adding that investigators should continue to probe into her former husband’s actions.

The official also said that Irina’s case was complicated because the younger son did not have Russian citizenship.

In late March, Russian Foreign Minister Sergei Lavrov said that Russia may ease the procedure for obtaining Russian citizenship for children from marriages between a Russian citizen and a foreigner.

Several scandals over the citizenship of children whose parents divorced have taken place in Russia over the last few years.

A diplomatic row arose in 2009 when Finish national Paavo Salonen was charged for illegally taking his five-year-old son Anton from his Russian mother Rimma to Finland with the help of a Finnish diplomat, who crossed the Russian-Finnish border with the boy in the trunk of his vehicle.

Friday, October 21, 2011

Dad going to trial for 2005 murder of 21-month-old son (Iowa City, Iowa)

The dad is BRIAN DALE DYKSTRA. The boy was in the "sole care and custody" of his father at the time of his murder. The boy's fatal brain injuries sound like abusive head trauma.

http://easterniowanewsnow.com/2011/10/21/iowa-city-father-accused-in-toddlers-death-to-be-tried-next-week/

Iowa City father accused in toddler’s death to be tried next week

Posted October 21, 2011 4:16 pm by Vanessa Miller/SourceMedia Group News

More than six years after a 21-month-old Johnson County boy died with severe brain injuries, his adoptive father next week will be tried on suspicion of delivering the fatal blows.

After a three-year investigation, Brian Dale Dykstra, 35, was arrested in August 2008 and charged with second-degree murder in the Aug. 14, 2005 death of his toddler son, Isaac Jonathan Dykstra.

The trial, which will start with jury selection Monday morning, is expected to last about a week and a half, said Assistant Johnson County Attorney Anne Lahey, the lead prosecutor on the case.

Prosecutors could call as many as 39 witnesses, according to trial information, and many of those witnesses are expected to offer medical-type testimony.

Isaac Dykstra was born Nov. 18, 2003, in Krasnoyarsk, Russia, and he was adopted by Brian and Lisa Dykstra, of Iowa City, just months before his death, according to police.

Officers were dispatched to the Dykstra residence on Aug. 13, 2005 after receiving an abandoned 911 call from the home. When a dispatcher called back, Dykstra said his son might have been having seizure and difficulty breathing.

Dykstra also told the dispatcher that the problem might be related to a head injury, according to police. When emergency crews arrived, they found the child unconscious on the living room floor, laboring to breathe, with apparent head injuries and bruising.

Isaac was taken by ambulance to the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics, where doctors determined he was suffering life-threatening injuries, including massive brain swelling, severe bleeding inside his skull and retinal swelling in both eyes.

He also had severe bruising on his body, including his torso and legs. Doctors said the injuries had occurred that day and were “inconsistent” with Dykstra’s explanations.

Investigators also said they found Dykstra’s story “suspicious, incomplete and inconsistent.”

Isaac was pronounced brain-dead the following day, and Iowa City police, with the Iowa Division of Criminal Investigation, launched a suspicious death investigation. They believe Isaac died from head trauma that was inflicted while he was in the sole custody and care of his father.

Dykstra, who moved to South Carolina after the child’s death, posted a $15,000 bond after his arrest and returned to South Carolina, where he has been living.

Thursday, September 29, 2011

"Sadistic" American dad gets custody of kids--because Russian mom made them study violin

Interesting story from Pravda.

One error in this account: it is no longer unusual for abusive men to make a custody bid by smearing the mother with bogus claims. Notice that Mom is accused of phony "psychological abuse" and "cultural torture" for such things as making the kids play violin (!). Yet UNNAMED DAD once hit Mom hard enough for her to lose sight in one eye, and also made broke the arm of one of the sons (not to mention trying to strangle him).

Another curious thing. Notice that the U.S. Embassy in Italy DID NOTHING. The State Department gets all in a twitter about dads who lose access when the moms take off to their home country (like the Goldman case).  But they don't give a sh** when an American father is beating the crap out of his wife and kids in a foreign land. (In fact, according to the Russians, the American Embassy in Russia eventually did an illegal search of HER apartment after she left Italy and returned home!)

Notice that DAD GOT CUSTODY ANYWAY, despite his accelerating violence. The kids hated living with him, and it response, the lawyer/father tried to get the 14-year-old son thrown into a mental institution. Shades of Alanna Krauss, a California teenager who received similar treatment at the hands of her custodial father, also a lawyer.

But notice that Mom did get help from the Russian Embassy in Italy.

http://english.pravda.ru/society/stories/29-09-2011/119183-woman_US_husband-0/

Russian woman escapes from her US sadistic husband
29.09.2011

Marianne Grin of Russia secretly took out her four children from Italy to Russia, saving them from their sadistic father. The Italian authorities not only failed to protect the children from the constant abuse, but on the contrary, gave full custody to their father. The situation is complicated by the fact that he is an American lawyer working in a large international company. Today Marianne seriously fears for her family. Employees of the U.S. Consulate in St. Petersburg have already attempted an intrusion into her apartment.


Marianne's parents moved to the U.S. when she was 15 years old. The girl successfully graduated from high school and enrolled at the prestigious Harvard University, where she earned his doctorate in law. She met her husband while working in a law office in Manhattan. Soon after the wedding, he invited her to move to Italy, where he has previously worked.

"I did not want to leave, because my career was progressing well. But my husband was very persistent. The only advantage of the move was the proximity of Italy to Russia, with which I never broke ties. All my children have Russian citizenship. Almost every summer we went with them to St. Petersburg, where I still have close family," says Marianne.


Marianne had hoped that after a couple of years they would return to the States. As it turned out, her husband settled in Italy for a long time. As a lawyer, he represented the interests of large U.S. companies. "I was surprised that my husband preferred to stay in a small Italian town. Typically, the company's employees with branches nearly all over the world often move because of career considerations. He did not seem interested," says Marianne.


A few years later it became clear that their family life was failing. The husband frequently disappeared from the house without warning. Soon he moved to another apartment. According to Marianne, she was fine with this situation: "I understood that our feelings have cooled down long time ago. He wanted freedom - he got it. I was busy raising children." But as it turned out, her husband wanted not just freedom - he also had to protect himself from possible financial claims of the wife in the future.

"He once told me that he has filed an action against me," says Marianne. Interestingly, it was not about a divorce. According to the statement, the husband accused the wife of "psychological abuse" towards their children. "Violence" was manifested in the fact that children were forced to learn to play violin and speak foreign languages. Outraged by this "cultural tortures," the father insisted that the court limited the mother's rights for the children. According to Marianne, this unusual move was made by her husband so he would not have to pay child support in case of a divorce.

Since then, the life of this successful woman has changed drastically. She was assigned at least five social workers, one of which practically settled at her home. All of them had to watch how well the mother treated the children to determine whether the children's psyche was threatened by her behavior.

However, despite her husband's connection to the local courts, he was not successful at quickly depriving the mother of her parental rights. "And then his evil, vindictive nature manifested itself in all its glory. He began to abuse me and the children," says Marianne. One day her husband hit her against the wall with such force that the woman partially lost sight in one of her eyes. On another occasion, he broke his eldest son's arm and tried to strangle him. In response to the children's stories about physical abuse, a police spokesman advised the social authorities to send the children to a boarding school.


Naturally, once in such an unexpected situation, the woman tried to defend herself and sued her husband for causing harm to the health of children. The prosecutor has opened two criminal cases - traumatic brain injury in two children and malicious failure to pay child support. Yet, the local social authorities nevertheless decided to give custody to the father.

This was said to be a temporarily measure - for the duration of the divorce of Marianne and her husband. Yet, in Italy, such cases can drag on for 5 or 7 years. All this time the interim decision of the judge cannot be appealed in higher courts. As a result the "temporary" solution could well become permanent for quite a long period of time. This situation continued in the family of Marianne Grin for three years.

Several times the woman tried to seek help from the local U.S. consulate, asking them to protect her from her abusive husband, Together with her eldest son, whose arm was broken by his father, she came to a meeting with the consul where the boy described in detail the behavior of his father. In response, they were told that the consulate did not have the necessary authority to influence the situation.

The result in the Russian Consulate was more positive - the Russian Foreign Ministry sent an official request regarding this case to their colleagues in Italy. Yet, as expected, the response received indicated that the local judiciary was independent and does not allow interference in its affairs.


The relationships between the father and children during this time have deteriorated and the children complained of daily beatings. The eldest son, now 14 years old, stated categorically that he was not going to live with his father. In response, the latter asked the local authorities to send his son to a psychiatric hospital because of his "strange" decision.

"Under the American law there is no statute of limitations for crimes committed against children. A few years later as an adult the son may very well go to the United States and file a claim in a court against the father. The least the father will get will be the loss of his law license, because the laws on violence against children in America are very strict," says Marianne. However, if he timely sends the boy to a psychiatric hospital, he can claim his insanity and thereby protect himself.

"In late August I was told in court that if my son would not voluntarily go live with his father, he will be taken into a closed institution, and I will be completely deprived of my parental rights. I could not let this happen because I was not sure of the safety of my child," says Marianne. Then the woman decided to take a desperate step and secretly took all four children to Russia - just one day before the execution of the threat.

However, it soon became clear that the husband will try to get to her there as well. Last Friday Marianne's apartment in St. Petersburg was visited by the employees of the U.S. Consulate. They practically forced their entry and conducted an illegal search of the apartment. Of course, Marianne and children were not there as the apartment has been rented out for a long time. The frightened residents were urged to provide the address of the woman. Fortunately, they simply did not know.

The official representative of Marianne Grin sent a letter to U.S. Ambassador to Russia John Baeyrli, where he requested to provide copies of the documents of the staff who illegally invaded the apartment of Mrs. Grin for prosecution. The letter emphasized that within the last three years the officials of the American diplomatic service in Italy showed no interest in the fate of children and their mother who repeatedly asked them for help. In addition, the consulate employees have all the contacts of Marianne, and if necessary, they could have contacted her.


At the moment, Marianne Grin intends to appeal to Russian authorities about abuse against her and her children, as well as the threats to life and health. As pointed out by Marianne, her conflict with her husband is not personal - she is moved by quite understandable and natural desire to protect her children: "We have no economic disputes. My husband already took everything - from the apartment to the car and savings. Child support is not paid, since in Italy it is not punishable. I do not have any financial requests, as all the property is registered in the name of other people."

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Custodial dad kills 2-year-old daughter; judge investigated (Novosibirsk, Russia)

This is almost never seen. The times I have seen a judge held to even a minimal level of responsibility for decisions that result in dead children could be counted on one hand--with fingers to spare. Why was a drug-addicted (and convicted criminal!) father like VLADIMIR GLOTOV ever granted custody of a toddler? Only because our expectations when it comes to fathers are so low. Virtually any dad with a pulse is considered "good enough" these days.

Only TWO WEEKS AFTER gaining custody, Daddy beat this girl to death. Disgusting. But utterly predictable, given Daddy's track record. Cases like this happen all over the world, unfortunately.

http://rt.com/news/judge-face-consequences-ruling/

Addict dad kills 2yo girl – custody judge investigated
Published: 15 August, 2011, 18:34

A criminal case could be brought against Novosibirsk Judge Irina Glebova, who restored the parental rights of a drug addict, a move which resulted in the death of the man’s two-year-old daughter.

­Eva Glotova resided in a foster home after her drug-addicted mother passed away last year. Her father, a long-time drug user and convict, was deprived of his parental rights. However, in March this year he decided he wanted his daughter returned home and Judge Irina Glebova for some reason ruled in his favor.

Vladimir Markin, spokesperson for Russia’s Investigative Committee, says that an inspection established that on February 18th and March 5th, 2011, the judge presided over two court sessions that violated court procedures.

“Following these sessions, the judge, Irina Glebova, on March 5th ruled to have the parenting rights of Vladimir Glotov restored. These rulings were unlawful by definition. Glotov’s daughter Eva, the subject of his parenting rights, had not even turned three at that time. On March 16th, 2011, a foster home was forced to turn Eva over to her drug addict father. Only two weeks later, Eva was brutally beaten by her father. Her death was caused by a stomach wound inflicted with a blunt object,” he said.

Initially, Glotov claimed his daughter had choked to death, but examination proved that the girl died from injuries, reports Vesti FM.

According to the Investigative Committee, Glotov acknowledged his guilt and explained that when Eva had refused to eat, he punched her stomach and then kicked her in the head.

Judge Glebova was forced to return her judicial robes after she was dismissed in May from the Novosibirsk Kirov District Court over her decision to restore the parental rights in the Glotov case.

However, disciplinary proceedings against this judge had been brought long before the death of Eva Glotova. Numerous complaints have previously been filed against Glebova.

Back in March the Qualifying Board of Judges ruled on disciplinary actions against Glebova – if the slightest infringement was to be found in her work, she would lose her job. Unfortunately, that did not happen soon enough. Only on May 13 did the board make a decision to terminate her powers.

If the Novosibirsk Region’s Collegiate of Judges satisfies the request of the Investigative Committee’s chairman, a criminal case will be opened against the judge.

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Russia has no legal mechanism for prosecuting domestic violence

If you are not familiar with domestic violence issues in Russia, this is an excellent introduction. Notice that it is also common for Russian abusive fathers to murder their children--in order to get "revenge" against the mothers. And that custody issues are a nightmare--just as they are nearly everywhere these days.

http://www.russiaprofile.org/page.php?pageid=Culture+%26+Living&articleid=a1293034376

December 22, 2010
Battery in Private
By Tom Balmforth
Russia Profile

Russia Has No Legal Mechanism for Prosecuting Domestic Abuse

The government considers violence against women in their homes as a strictly private matter, unless the victim sustains medium to severe injuries.

Yekaterina Vinogorova, a 39-year-old mother of three, finally fled her 15-year-long marriage after her husband broke her nose and ribs and covered her in bruises. “He would have these periodic outbursts of jealousy. The last time he beat me up so badly I simply walked out, but he carried on following me. Once he slashed the tires on my car. He was stalking me everywhere,” she said.

For three months Vinogorova and her children were given refuge at Moscow’s shelter for victims of domestic violence until she could move in with her parents, where she remains almost two years on. The paycheck she gets at a Moscow beauty salon is just about enough to support herself and her children, but the situation with her husband is far from resolved.

Vinogorova is prosecuting him in court for the assault. Still, Russia has no legal mechanism for imposing restraining orders even though persuasive research shows that women are most at risk when leaving their partners. She always gives police statements when she is harassed by him, but with little success. Since she left him, he has attacked her father to convince her to return, vandalized her car by tearing out the battery and wires under the hood and finally burnt down their country home. “The trouble is none of this can be proven and the police aren’t interested,” she said, adding that he refuses to hand over her and her children’s passports.

“People like this get some kind of gratification from all this. He’s actually living with another woman now, but apparently this doesn’t make him want to leave us alone. And it all continues unpunished. I just don’t know how this is going to end. When I go out, I make sure I keep checking around me. Who knows what’s on his mind and no one’s there to protect me. The police do nothing.”

Yekaterina’s case is not entirely typical—she was, at least, fortunate enough to make it to a shelter. “They helped me a lot. I lived there with my children for three months. They had lawyers and psychiatrists, and it was all free,” she said. Russia has just 23 of these local government-funded shelters, clearly too few for a largely ignored social issue which claims a staggering 14,000 women’s lives a year, according to government statistics cited by this year’s UN report titled “End the Silence.”

The capital, with its real population way in excess of ten million, has only one shelter, the “Hope Center,” which has 35 beds, said Elena Korsakova, its director. NGO workers consider the 14,000 deaths a year a conservative estimate even though it equates to the number of soldiers the Soviet Union lost in its decade-long abortive campaign in Afghanistan. Put otherwise, one woman is killed by her partner every 40 minutes, meaning that Russian women are three times more likely to be abused within the walls of their own home by their partners than they are even on the streets, a report by ANNA, Russia’s leading domestic violence NGO working trying to curb violence against women, found this year.

What’s more, in Russia domestic violence is as likely within the walls of the elite Rublyovka mansions as it is in the apartments of its bleak single-industry cities. “This problem transcends any social strata or social group,” said Marina Pisklakova-Parker, the director of ANNA. “It doesn’t depend on education, income or other forms of social status. It happens in every type of family. It’s everywhere. But still it is not discussed.”

Suffering in silence

Russian pop diva Valeria brought domestic violence into Russia’s headlines when in 2005 she documented ten years of quietly suffering beatings from her husband, the man who managed her superstar music career. But this was a rare public glimpse into domestic violence, and the anguish of its victims more often goes unheard in a matter that is socially perceived as a private affair. “In society, domestic violence is not considered bad behavior,” said Pisklakova-Parker. “When nobody says you cannot beat your wife, then everybody who does it assumes they have a right to do it. There is only silence. Society says ‘it’s okay, it’s not a crime’.” In his State of the Nation address this year, President Dmitry Medvedev delivered a wide-ranging plan to protect women and children to halt the population crisis because of the forecasted drop in women of child-bearing age, but he made no mention of the violence at home killing 14,000 women a year.

Out of Russia’s three mainstream pollsters, the Public Opinion Fund, VTsIOM, and Levada, only the latter could provide any statistics on domestic violence, and even that poll dated back to 2006. That year, 26 percent of Russians said that domestic violence is “very widespread” in Russia, 45 percent said “quite widespread” and 19 percent said “not widespread,” according to Levada. The rest were “not sure.”

Muddled numbers

Moreover, statistics are unreliable because of the backwardness of the government’s approach to domestic violence. No distinction is drawn between crimes against different genders, meaning that Interior Ministry statistics on domestic violence are inaccurate. There are also a raft of ambiguities in the Interior Ministry data issued to the public. Speaking at an event organized to prevent future domestic violence in 2008, the police said that there were over 200,000 domestic violence crimes committed by people when drunk, but also said that there are over 250,000 people suffering from alcoholism. “Are these alcoholics among the domestic violence offenders, or are these two different categories?” asked this year’s ANNA report that tried to make sense of the data to pinpoint problematic areas.

In post-Soviet Ukraine, NGO workers say that as many as 70 percent of women are victims of domestic violence. But accurate country-comparisons are tricky. What sets Russia apart is the shocking death toll, which stems from deficient government measures to nip cases in the bud before they escalate. “We have only criminal articles, meaning that intervention can be carried out only when the injuries are medium or severe or in the case of murder,” said Pisklakova-Parker. “Because of the nature of domestic violence, by the time women are suffering medium injuries it is too late. The level of danger is already very high.”

“It’s difficult to assess how Russia compares with other countries, but in Russia there are more frequent cases of domestic violence ending in death because there is no state-level system for helping women, said Larissa Ponarina, the deputy director of ANNA.

Alexei Parshin, a lawyer who does pro bono work for the victims, said that one of the main legal challenges is the lack of a legal mechanism to impose restraining orders. “If a lover, civil partner, or husband continues following a woman, there is no legal mechanism to limit his interaction with that woman,” he said. “We have a witness protection program, but this law is not used for crimes of this gravity.” Significantly, there is no specific article in the criminal code against domestic violence, meaning that acts of domestic violence are seen in the same light as simple assault.

Punishments usually amount to little more than fines and do not take into account the relationship between the assailant and the victim (sometimes as straightforward as one of economic dependence), and the psychological trauma thereby caused. “In some situations, criminals are due a jail sentence but we can’t get it because jail sentences aren’t stipulated for fighting. I think sentences need to be made tougher,” said Parshin. “If there was a law on domestic violence, then we could give more serious terms, or at least suitable terms which, in the case of a repeated offense, would be made appropriately serious.”

Pisklakova-Parker agreed. “We don’t have legislation that says ‘no,’ you cannot do it. Even when cases get to court, sentences are very light. The first time a person gets sentenced, it counts in their favor because they are seen as a responsible person.” Domestic violence falls awkwardly between cracks in legislation: it should qualify as “torment” under Article 117 of the Russian Criminal Code because of its repeated and systematic nature, and should therefore be punishable by three years in prison, argues this year’s shadow report by ANNA. But in Russian law, battery inflicted during an argument and arising from personal hostility cannot qualify as “torment.”

Not a crime

Against this backdrop of silence, backward legislation and the statistical vacuum, some contend the problem is evolving. In November The Moscow Times cited “women’s rights advocates” who claimed that more children are being beaten and killed by fathers taking revenge against their mothers. The ANNA report recounted a brutal murder in Tatarstan of a five-year-old boy by his father, who stabbed him to death to “settle a score” with his wife, whom he suspected of infidelity.

Ponarina was reluctant to confirm a possible pattern. “We haven’t had to deal with any of these kinds of cases. There probably are cases like this, but I can’t say for sure that this is a trend. Of course, children are manipulated in order to somehow manipulate women and victims of domestic violence. As for the trend of murder, I just can’t say.”

Vinogorova is currently in court with her husband over rights to see the children. “He’s demanding in court that we allow him to see the children. I explain that I cannot just sit back and allow a person like him to see them. I have to protect my children. They themselves are scared after all this,” she said.

An army of one

Even if women do manage to escape dependence on their partners, pressing charges is a complex process, which lawyers and NGO workers agree favors the defendant. Under Russian law domestic violence cases are not handled by the state, and victims must act as the prosecutors themselves because violence at home is seen as a private affair that the state should not encroach on. “Just imagine for a moment how few women have a legal education and know what to do or even how to write statements. If it’s a trial, it is the woman who has to prosecute. If you then bear in mind that this woman has been living with the defendant for several years or even many years, or that they have children together, it’s clear that it’s going to be really difficult. On top of that, she has to prosecute someone she is scared of,” said Parshin.

After negotiating with the Federation Council in spring of this year, NGO workers thought that they had won a breakthrough when the government appeared to have agreed to draft a better approach to deal with domestic violence. Pisklakova-Parker said the government was still working on it, but there are still major disagreements between the government and the NGO sector. “The Russian government’s position was that we do have legislation that covers domestic violence. They referred to the Criminal Code, where articles cover physical abuse regardless of where it takes place (either at home or in public). They don’t really understand what domestic violence is,” she said.

Perhaps stuttering political will on this subject will gain momentum after president Medvedev launched his campaign to protect women and children to halt the population drop in his State of the Nation address. Parshin said that over his five years of working personally in the field, there were noticeable steps being made in the right direction, and held out optimism. “Ten years ago, no one even admitted there was a problem,” he said. “Now, years later, there is more awareness thanks to the work of rights workers—people like Pisklakova-Parker. They’ve done a lot for this problem to be heard and recognized. Domestic violence is a problem everywhere in the world, but elsewhere they got onto it earlier so more has been done about it. We recognized it only recently and the approach to this question is already changing.”

Friday, December 10, 2010

Dad "waterboarded baby girl to stop her crying" (Lyons, New York)

We first reported on this case yesterday, but it's interesting that the UK press is reporting more information than the local press. Now we find out that dad AARON IACONO is not only abusive to his infant daughter, he's also abusive to her Russian-born mother.

Keep that in mind next time you hear (some) American men complain that American women are all ballbreaking bitches and how "foreign" women are better. What that means is that they prefer "foreign" women as wives because these women often come from desperate circumstances, so they may be more willing to put up with abusive treatment. In addition, because these women are often unfamiliar with English or the American legal system, they have a much harder time getting help when they or their children are being battered.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1337364/Father-waterboarded-baby-girl-stop-crying.html

Father 'waterboarded baby girl to stop her crying'
By Paul Thompson
Last updated at 8:18 AM on 10th December 2010

A father has been accused of 'waterboarding' his 10-month-old daughter in a shocking attempt to stop her crying.

Aaron Iacono allegedly held the baby girl under a running tap on several occasions to shut her up.

Police said the girl's face and head were forcibly held under the cold water for up to five minutes, causing her stomach to swell with water.

When his wife tried to intervene he is said to have choked her with his hands before throwing the baby to the ground.

Iacono,30, is also accused of smashing his daughter's head against a shower head while trying to stop her crying.

He is being held without bail in Lyons, New York, on multiple charges including attempted assault, a criminal sex act and endangering the welfare of a child.

Police said the baby girl, who has not been named, was treated for cuts and bruises and a broken leg following the alleged abuse.

The horrific incident allegedly took place at the home Iacono shared with his Russian-born wife.

Police say that on November 30, Iacono held the baby girl’s head and face under a stream of cold water in the bathtub for approximately five minutes.

He repeated the act in the bathroom sink three times, hitting her head on the taps.

Iacono then reportedly threw the child to the ground.

When his wife tried to intervene, Iacono is said to have choked her before demanding oral sex.

In another incident, he is accused of slamming the baby’s head against a shower head.

The child was treated at Newark-Wayne Hospital before being released.

Wayne County District Attorney Richard Healy said the incident was one of the worst cases of child abuse he's seen in Wayne County.

'We've dealt with a lot of child abuse cases,' he said.

'But I've never seen or read anything like this. Running cold water on an infant to teach her a lesson or to prevent it from crying. That's just outrageous conduct.'

Waterboarding was a torture perfected by the CIA to extract confessions from terror suspects.

It involves water being poured over a suspects head until they have the sensation of drowning.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1337364/Father-waterboarded-baby-girl-stop-crying.html#ixzz17jwqZ7nU

Monday, October 18, 2010

Dad headed to prison for making child porn involving daughter (Kaysville, Utah)

UNNAMED DAD has been convicted of producing child pornography with his adopted daughter, with the abuse starting right after he and his wife "rescued" her from Russia. The daughter is now in state custody. Where the adoptive mother was during the months this was going on is not explained. This daddy is one reason American parents have developed such a bad reputation in Russia.

http://www.deseretnews.com/article/700074601/Kaysville-dad-headed-to-prison-for-making-lewd-videotape-of-his-daughter.html

Kaysville dad headed to prison for making lewd videotape of his daughter
Published: Monday, Oct. 18, 2010 5:33 p.m. MDT
By Dennis Romboy, Deseret News

SALT LAKE CITY — A Kaysville man recalled in court Monday how happy he and his wife were to rescue their adopted daughter eight years ago from deplorable living conditions in Russia that he described as unfit for animals.

Now, he's headed to federal prison for creating a fake e-mail account from a modeling agency to convince the girl that the lewd videos and photos he took of her was not only a normal father-daughter activity but in demand by others.

U.S. District Judge Ted Stewart Monday sentenced the 45-year-old man to 15 years in prison for production of child pornography. He also will be under federal supervision for the rest of his life upon his release.

The victim told the judge the sexual abuse started shortly after her arrival.

"Do you call that a home? I don't," she said. "I feel like I was brought from a bad environment to worse."

Over a period of months in 2009, the father videotaped and photographed his then 16-year-old daughter initially with her clothes on but then in various states of undress until she was naked. He provided and positioned her with sexual objects during photo sessions. Prosecutor Trina Higgins said he convinced the girl that the sexually explicit photos were normal and created an e-mail account through which he sent images to himself posing as a modeling agent to further convince her that others were interested. He also paid his daughter as if the money had come from the agency.

The girl eventually contacted police on her own.

"He calls it misguided. It is not misguided. It is a federal felony," Higgins said.

In his statements to the judge, the Kaysville man — whose name is being withheld by the Deseret News to protect the identity of his victim — apologized to his friends and family in the courtroom for his "mistaken actions" but did not directly apologize to his daughter. He lamented that he would miss out on his children growing up. He said he's taken steps in jail the past few months to better himself and that he wants to do humanitarian service after prison.

"I know that I have to pay a price for my mistakes," he said.

Attorney Sidney Unrau said his client knows he did wrong.

"The line he shouldn't have crossed was so far behind him he couldn't see it," the prosecutor said. "He crossed every conceivable line he shouldn't cross with his daughter."

The girl, who is now in the care of the state Division of Child and Family Services, found her father's statements to the judge disingenuous.

"You can't teach an old dog new tricks," she said. "I feel like this is all a show. … I feel sick to my stomach to know he's going to be out in 15 years."

She has undergone extensive counseling and told the judge she is doing well in school. The judge will decide later whether to order him to pay her $28,000 therapy bill.

Said Higgins, "She will rise above this attempt to degrade her and demoralize her."

Monday, May 24, 2010

Whatever happened to Chaim the little stowaway? (Ellis Island, New York - 1907)

I'm always interested by stories concerning abused children who manage to survive or even thrive, regardless of time or place. So ocassionally, I dip into the archives and look for an intriguing or illuminating historical case.

Just recently, I posted a story about little 12-year-old Chaim Kleinman (misspelled as "Chain" in the original article), who ran away from his violent father in Warsaw, Poland and succeeded in getting to New York City with nothing but 3 rubles in his pocket. He was hoping to find his mother, who somehow had managed to escape her abusive husband with just a few of the younger children (the two older boys, including Chaim, were left behind). This was in 1907! It was quite an amazing tale of derring-do, but I had to wonder: whatever happened to the little stowaway? Did the immigration authorities at Ellis Island send him back, even though Chaim feared that his father would kill him if he returned? Did he ever find his mother? Here's the original Dastardly Dads from the Archives posting:

http://dastardlydads.blogspot.com/2010/05/dastardly-dads-from-archives-ellis.html

Well, Chaim's story struck a nerve with at least one reader, who decided to see if there was a resolution to this tale. So she searched a bit, and fortunately, she found that Chaim did indeed locate his mother, who, as you can imagine, was utterly thrilled to have her son back! Here's what she found:

From the New York Times, September 16, 1907

http://query.nytimes.com/mem/archive-free/pdf?_r=1&res=9801EEDB1F30E233A25755C1A96F9C946697D6CF

WELCOME WAITS FOR THIS STOWAWAY

Little Russian's Mother and Brother and Sisters and Uncle are Found.

RAN AWAY FROM WARSAW

12-Year-Old Chaim Shlome Kleinman Beat His Way to Ellis Island and Will be Released To-day.

Chaim Shlome Kleinman is not to go back to Russia, as was thought very probable on Thursday, when the Barbarossa came into port with the 12-year-old boy a stowaway and no one to receive him. True, he knew that he had two uncles--Morris Jacobson and Max Weiss--here; that his mother, two brothers, and a sister were in New York, but he had no addresses. He left his father in a hurry one night in Warsaw, Poland, and didn't wait for special instructions.

Since Friday, when Chaim Shlome (he'll soon get another name) was put in the detention house on Ellis Island by the immigration authorities, he has been telling about his relatives here. Some did not believe that he had any, and almost all his listeners were quite sure that the thin little boy had mistaken their names.

But Jews who took an interest in his case advertised the two names given by Chaim Shlome in east side papers, and yesterday, one of of these papers heard from the very Max Weiss about whom the boy had told. He has a well-paying tailor's shop at 791 Ninth Avenue, near Fifty-third Street, and lives in the house above with his wife.

There, too, lives Chaim's mother, who had to leave her husband, Hirsh Kleinman, some three years ago, she said, because he was mean to her. She is a sister of Mrs. Weiss and also of the wife of the very Morris Jacobson whose name was given by the little stowaway, and lives at 438 Lenox Avenue.

Since coming here, Mrs. Kleinman, a pleasant-faced little woman, has been living with the Weiss's and working about as a trained nurse. When she fled from her husband, who operates a line of wagons in Warsaw, she left him Jacob, who was then 13, and Chaim, who was 9. She brought Raphael, then a baby, and Annie, who was then 11 years old.

Annie lives with Mrs. Jacobson. Some two months ago, Jacob came to this country, and was at once taken into the Weiss family. He is working in the shop at 791 Ninth Avenue. No one wrote to Chaim to come here. Though he had treated her cruelly, she said yesterday afternoon, Mrs. Kleinman thought that her husband ought to have one or two of the children with him. But when Chaim read the letters that were sent to Jacob telling of America, and though no money was provided for him, and though nobody had invited him to pay America a visit, he decided on his own hook to do it.

Mr. Weiss and Mrs. Kleinman rushed down yesterday morning to try to get Chaim out immediately, but they were told to come back to-day. And so this morning early they will be there--Mrs. Kleinman, Mrs. Weiss, Max Weiss, Mr. and Mrs. Jacobsson, and Raphael--to welcome the stout little stowaway. Jacob will not be there as he must tend the shop while Mr. Weiss goes. The golden-haired Annie will not be there, as she explained this way:


"Oh, I must go to school. Did you notice how I speak the English language? The school runs to-morrow, and I will--no, shall--not be in readiness to go see my brother. I must not go anywhere but to school, you know, except on Saturdays and Sundays. And I came running down to Mrs. Weiss's to-day, but he could not come. Now I shall see him after the school. That will be grand."

One reason immigration officials were doubtful about Chaim being able to carry out his often-expressed determination to come into this country in spite of all laws and office, was that even if some of the relatives of the lad should be located, they wouldn't be willing to take him on their hands. In that case he would have to be sent back. But Mr. Weiss means well by Chaim Shlome Kleinman: he will agree to care for him.

Mrs. Kleinman is very proud of Chaim Kleinman now; she is sure that a boy who could make his way from Warsaw to New York with a couple of rubles is a pretty good sort of person to bank on. She will send him to school after the holidays. But first of all she is going to have him tell all about his adventures while walking the twelve days from Warsaw to Cracow; how he got past the border guards; how he got to Bremen, and then how he got aboard the ship. There's a good time ahead for Chaim Shlome Kleinman at 791 Ninth Avenue; he is already a hero there.

Saturday, May 22, 2010

DASTARDLY DADS FROM THE ARCHIVES (New York, New York - 1911)

To me, history is like tortilla chips and salsa. One I get my hands in it, I can't stop. So of course, we must search through the archival dust for another story. This one involves dad JACOB GREENBERG, a Russian immigrant to New York. Six years after immigrating, Greenberg left his wife, and disappeared with their daughter. The abandoned wife was ordered back to Russia.

Like abusive fathers to this day, Greenberg's custodial intentions had everything to do with coercive control and nothing to do with affection, since he beat the girl (in fact he was arrested on the complaint of women neighbors). But we know that this story has a happy ending, since Ida is ultimately reunited with her mother after she returns to New York.

http://query.nytimes.com/mem/archive-free/pdf?res=9B01EEDC1E3EE033A2575BC2A9609C946096D6CF

From the New York Times, June 28, 1911

CRUEL FATHER REARRESTED.
Greenberg Loses Daughter and Is Accused of Abandoning his Wife.

Jacob Greenberg of 392 East Eighth Street, who was acquitted in Special Sessions on Monday of cruelty to his little daughter Ida, was rearraigned before the Justices yesterday and pleaded not guilty to a charge of abandonment made against him by Agent Hyland of the Children's Society.

Greenberg was arrested on the complaint of women neighbors. He was held in $1,000 bail for trial by Magistrate House, and the next day his wife, who had not lived with him for three years, appeared at the District Attorney's office and asked to see her child. The child threw herself in her mother's arms and told her how her father and beaten her. But when the case came to trial in Special Sessions the child refused to testify against her father.

Agent Hyland learned that Greenberg had married his wife in Russia nine years ago and had come to this country a month later. Three years ago Greenberg left his wife, taking with him his daughter. He did this by telling his wife to return to Russia taking with her two of their children.

Greenberg's wife never heard from him, and returning to this country she was unable to find him until she read of his cruelty to the little girl in the newspapers.

Ida has been turned over to her mother.

DASTARDLY DADS FROM THE ARCHIVES (Ellis Island, New York - 1907)

We haven't done an archive article in a while, so I thought it was time we sifted through the dust and found one.

Reading these articles from the past is always so poignant. I have to wonder: Did Chain, the little stowaway, ever find his mother in New York? Or did he get shipped back to Poland, where he feared being killed by his father, HIRSH KLEINMAN, for running away? Or did Chain get sent back and manage to survive--only to become one of the millions of Polish Jews slaughtered in the Holocaust 35 years later?

We see many contemporary stories like this one, too. But these days, the stories involve children from Latin American coming here to search for their mothers.

From the New York Times, September 14, 1907

http://query.nytimes.com/mem/archive-free/pdf?res=9E05E6DC103EE033A25757C1A96F9C946697D6CF

LITTLE STOWAWAY FLED FROM RUSSIA
12-Year old Son of Cruel Father Escaped Across Frontier and Hid on Barbarosa.

SEEKING HIS MOTHER HERE
Will be Deported if Relatives Do Not Claim Him--Declares He Will Die if Returned Home

In the detention quarters at Ellis Island is a little lad, who with only two rubles in his pocket fled from his father's home in Poland, stole across the Russian frontier, stowed away on the steamship Barbarossa at Bremen, and come to this country in search of this mother. With her are the lad's brother and two sisters.

Unless some of the family appear, and in a few days, the little adventurer will be sent back to Bremen. His story as told by himself is known to every immigrant inspector at the Island, and they are sorry for the lad.

Chain Shlome Kleinman is the name of the stowaway, and he is 12 years old, but looks four years younger. His home was on the outskirts of Warsaw. His father, Hirsh Kleinman, was very harsh to the boy, he says. But the harshness dates only back to three years ago, when Chain's mother left home to seek her fortune in America. With her went Hannah, aged 11; Rachel, aged 4, and Jacob, aged 18. They came to New York, as subsequent letters to Hirsh Kleinman showed. But their address was not given.

When the mother and Chain's sisters and big brother left home there remained only his father and himself. It was very lonely for Chain. To be sure, there were his playmates, the neighbors' children, but they did not take the place of Rachel, Hannah, and Jacob.

To make matters worse Chain says his father decided that work was good for him, so he was put to work in a state mine. The pay was 3 rubles (about $1.50) a week, and this was drawn by his father. Sometimes he was allowed a few small coins. The work was hard. The hours were from 7 in the morning until 9 o'clock at night, with only a few minutes at noon to eat the scanty luncheon his father provided.

Chain's hands soon became cut and bruised by the sharp pieces of slate. But this was no excuse for him to quit work. There were no vacations.

Six weeks ago the child determined to run away. One night he crawled out his bedroom window and headed on foot for the frontier. Two rubles was all the money he had for the journey to America. He was determined to come here in search of his mother and his brother and sisters.

For many days the boy tramped the roads, sleeping at night in haystacks or in barns or wherever he could find a soft spot to lay his head. The frontier was finally reached. His passport was demanded. He had none, and was turned back by the official. But Chain had a ruble left. The other he spent in little dribblets for food. He crept back to the back frontier and offered it to one of the officials, he says. This was at Vitipsk. The lad was allowed to cross.

By begging Chain managed to reach Crakow, where he told his story to a family who were about to start to New York. They were touched by his tale, and agreed to take the lad to Bremen. When they reached there the Barbarossa was ready to set sail. Chain's new-found friends went on board. He attempted to follow, but was held up by one of the steamship officers.

"But my father is on board there, and I want to get to him!" said Chain to the officer. He was allowed to go aboard. Once there he hid in the steerage.

The vessel was five days out before Chain was discovered by one of the assistant pursers. He was taken before the Captain, and when New York was reached was turned over to immigration officials.

Chain says he will die if he is taken back to his old home. He fears his father would kill him from running away, he says. The little fellow's hands still show the effect of the work in the state mine. He says that he has an uncle, Morris Jacobson, and a cousin, Max Weiserman, somewhere in New York.

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Violent father murders mother during court-ordered visitation (Mankato, Minnesota)

Dad JOEL MUNT is a special kind of abuser--the kind who seeks out a foreign bride because he knows that women who don't speak fluent English and are foreign to U.S. culture are easier to abuse with impunity. But his wife resisted his abuse, and eventually filed for a domestic violence order of protection.

Not to worry for Daddy though, because he sounds like a master of manipulation (the kind who seek out foreign brides often are). He countered by filing an order of protection against HER--just to muddy the waters, you know. Plus, he was successful in finding idiotic social workers and therapists who happily smeared her with vague "anti-social personality" accusations--the kinds of accusations that are easily explained by Russian cultural differences, poverty, stress, and trauma. For a while he even got temporary custody.

But finally the various "experts" figured out a little of what was going on--at least enough to determine that the mom wasn't the "monster" that Dad made her out to be. In fact, serious questions were now being raised about Daddy's "lack of empathy" around the children, and the children's "anxiety" about being around Dad. Nevertheless, Dad still got joint legal custody and weekend visitation--until he refused to return the children to their mother after a visit.

Then Mom was awarded sole custody and Dad got 2 hours of visitation a week.

But ANY visitation with an abuser is too much. What Dad managed to do was turn the visitation into an opportunity to gun down and murder his ex-wife--while their young children--ages 7, 5, and 4--were in their mother's car. Daddy apparently forced the mother's car off the road, smashing his own SUV in the process. Daddy then hijacked a second SUV at gunpoint and took the kids with him. When he was arrested the children were with him in the vehicle.

At least in this case, it was clear to even the casual neighbor that Daddy had a few loose nuts. Sounds like the neighbor did a better job of sizing up Daddy than the parade of clueless therapists, social workers, and other assorted court morons associated with this case.

http://www.twincities.com/localnews/ci_14781711?nclick_check=1

An online match, a bitter divorce ... a violent death
Burnsville man accused of ex-wife's shooting death in Mankato park

By Nick Ferraro and Frederick Melo
Pioneer Press
Updated: 03/29/2010 11:56:57 PM CDT

Suffering from depression and anxiety, a Burnsville computer consultant created a Web site to rant against his former wife and a judge who oversaw their divorce.

Joel Munt claimed on the site that Svetlana Munt had odd habits, including "sucking the brains out of raw fish," and that the judge was "corrupt" and the child's legal advocate was a "rabid dog (who) needs to be removed from power."

But in April 2009, a Nicollet County judge found the 32-year-old woman was the more mentally capable of the two and awarded her sole custody of the couple's three young children.

On Sunday, Joel Munt, 33, was arrested in the shooting death of his former wife, whose body was found Sunday afternoon in a car at Rasmussen Woods park in Mankato, Minn., where she lived with the children.

Joel Munt's mother, Joan Munt, said Sundays were his visitation day with the kids. "We never would have thought this would happen," she said.

Munt was jailed in Blue Earth County on probable cause second-degree murder, Mankato police said in a statement. He was scheduled to appear before a judge today.

Munt was arrested without incident after a Blue Earth County Sheriff's Office deputy pulled over a car-jacked sport-utility vehicle. Police said Munt took the SUV at gunpoint.

Three children were with Munt when he was arrested, the Mankato Free Press reported Monday on its Web site. According to the Web site, the children were in the car with Svetlana Munt when she was shot. The couple's children are a 7-year-old girl and two boys, ages 5 and 4, Joan Munt said.

Court records paint a stark picture of Joel Munt's personal and financial situation, which spiraled downward after he filed for divorce in Faribault County in December 2006.

The case was moved to Nicollet County in April 2007 and dragged on for another two years, with Joel Munt's attorneys repeatedly filing to remove themselves.

In October 2008, Joel Munt filed to proceed "in forma pauperis" — "in the form of a pauper" — effectively waiving filing fees because of his financial troubles. He ultimately represented himself in court.

From 2007 to 2009, judges in Nicollet, Faribault and Dakota counties awarded at least four financial judgments against Joel Munt on behalf of five creditors.

Nicollet County Judge Todd Westphal, who finalized the divorce, held Joel Munt responsible for the more than $100,000 in debt the couple had accrued.

SHOTS AND A COLLISION

About 11:50 a.m. Sunday, Mankato officers responded to reports of shots fired at Rasmussen Woods. It was reported that a man with a gun was in the park's cul-de-sac area. Police said Joel Munt fled the scene before officers arrived.

According to police, an SUV had collided with a midsized passenger car and forced it off the road and into small trees. The SUV's engine was running, and the transmission was in gear. Its rear tire was still spinning as the SUV pinned the car against the trees.

Svetlana Munt was found face down in the car and unresponsive. She was pronounced dead at the scene.

Witnesses told police a man with a gun had fled the park just before officers arrived. They said the man was traveling south in another SUV.

The gunman reportedly had commandeered the second SUV from a good Samaritan who had stopped at the crash scene.

Munt was arrested on County Road 90. A handgun and other evidence were seized.

The three children were in protective custody Monday.

ABUSE ORDERS

Joan Munt said her son met Svetlana, who was born and raised in Russia, through the Internet. According to divorce documents, the couple married in November 1998 in Russia and had three children while living in Minnesota Lake, west of Albert Lea. They separated around October 2006.

In 2006, shortly before divorce proceedings began, Svetlana Munt filed for a domestic abuse order for protection against her husband. He countered by filing one against her.

In December 2006, a judge dismissed both orders and awarded temporary custody to Svetlana Munt. Her husband received temporary custody in April 2007, but a guardian ad litem reviewed psychological evaluations of both parents and concluded neither parent could provide "appropriate care for the children."

In 2008, both received joint legal custody. The children stayed with their mother in Mankato most weekdays for school.

That changed after September 2008, however, because of an incident in which Joel Munt refused to return them to their mother after a visit. After that, he was allowed two hours per week with his children.

In December 2007, a licensed social worker concluded the children were "securely attached" to their mother, "anxious" around their father and "uncomfortable" around his live-in fiancee, Tracy Schantzen. The social worker found that Joel Munt showed a "lack of empathy" toward the children.

According to a court-ordered psychological evaluation, he also was depressed and uncomfortable around people and "hypersensitive" to the judgment of others.

It found he "has marked discomfort around others leading to relationships occurring primarily via computer contact."

CONCERNS

On his Web site, DragonEmpire.ws, Munt expressed concerns about his ex-wife's behavior and mental health, some of which was echoed by court-appointed social workers and therapists. During a brief stay at a Mankato women's shelter, she hoarded food and used "vessels other than a toilet for urinating," according to court documents.

A psychological evaluation by a therapist also found she exhibited "anti-social personality traits ... with rapidly shifting emotions ... (including) dishonesty, failing to meet the children's needs and a lack of remorse or concern."

With time, however, the court found her parenting skills improved. Judge Westphal concluded in April 2009 that she was not the "monster" her ex-husband made her out to be.

The court also expressed concern about Joel Munt's appearance and mental health.

On Monday, a neighbor, Nathan Estep, said "he always got kind of a weird vibe" from Munt and that he rarely saw him outside the house in daylight hours.

"He always had on some sort of alien or 'Star Trek'-type T-shirts. ... His hair was always messed up," he said. "Every time I talked to him ... he would look at the ground."

On Monday, Schantzen said she is "just still in shock. I did not see this coming at all."

She declined to comment further, but in a note posted on the door of their home, she directed reporters to Munt's Web site.

The Associated Press contributed to this report. Nick Ferraro can be reached at 651-228-2173. Frederick Melo can be reached at 651-228-2172.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Dad of dead 2 year old has record of DV (Malaga, Spain)

UNNAMED DAD had been arrested for domestic violence on at least 4 ocassions, the last being in July 2006. So it's really not much of a suprise that he murdered one 2-year-old son, while the twin brother is hospitalized with fractured bones. The mother is also in jail, though her culpability is not spelled out. Though we would all like as moms to be superheroes who can stop all violence and bad things in the world, it's not always possible to stop a violent attack or even to remove the children from a violent family situation. Especially in these days of joint custody, mediation, and the like.

http://www.theleader.info/article/20180/spain/costa-del-sol/father-of-dead-two-year-old-has-record-of-domestic-violence/

FATHER OF DEAD TWO YEAR OLD HAS RECORD OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Contributor / 2009-10-26 13:59:59

The father of the two year old Ukrainian baby who died in the Materno Infantil Hospital in Malaga last week has a record of domestic violence.

The autopsy confirmed that the baby died of violent abuse and medical examinations on his twin brother, who is also in care in the hospital, has revealed a number of fractured bones. His condition is said to be stable.

The father, a 23 year boxer from Russia, has apparently been arrested for demostic violence on at least four occasions, the most recent being in July 2006. Both he and his 20 year old Ukrainian wife have been held on remand in prison in Alhaurin de la Torre since Saturday. The couple maintain that the injuries were caused by a babysitter who was left to look after the children when they went out for a drink, but have been unable to give the courts and the police a description and contact details.

The regional government will decide this week whether custody of the second child will be granted to the grandmother or the child will be held indefinitely in the care of social services.