FRs will tell you how sorry they are for the poor oppressed daddy. They'll tell you the solution is more contact. In reality, the solution is NO CONTACT for nutcase pyromaniacs and killer daddies. No contact with the child=no opportunity to murder them.
UNNAMED DAD
http://the-japan-news.com/news/article/0000906377
Boy dies in likely murder-suicide
December 30, 2014
The Yomiuri Shimbun
A 9-year-old boy has died in what police believe was a murder-suicide in which his father set him on fire, according to the police.
The 49-year-old father came for his second son, who was practicing baseball on the grounds of Shiomi Elementary School in Bunkyo Ward, Tokyo, at about 10:30 a.m. on Dec. 23. He took his son to the side of a school building, where he poured what appeared to be kerosene on himself and set himself on fire.
The man died soon after, and his son suffered severe burns.
According to Komagome Police Station, it is highly likely that the man also poured the kerosene-like liquid on his son, judging from the nature of the boy’s injuries. The police will send the case to the public prosecutors office as a murder, even though the suspect has died.
The man was going through court-mediated divorce proceedings with his wife, and the boy was living apart from his father.