Dad CHRISOPHER RAY MCBRIDE has been jailed after police say he permanently blinded his 1-year-old daughter in an assault. Mom is being charged as an "accessory" for failure to report the incident.
But before you get all huffy and judgemental, check out Dad's rap sheet. From the rap sheet alone, it's pretty easy to see that this mother was very likely terrified of crossing this guy, who sounds like a very dangerous dude. Personally, I would be scared of this dude big time. He seems like the kind that would easily murder his child or the mother out of pure spite. Drugs, firearms, past assault convictions, it's all there. If you can connect the dots, it is very likely that there's some ongoing domestic violence in Daddy's background, too. Until I see that this Mom had any real options for leaving this home safely, with her child, without getting shot at, without having to battle for custody, with a decent job, child care, and a home lined up, I would respectfuly suggest we reserve judgement.
Note that fathers are very seldom prosecuted for "failing to protect," even when they knowingly, and without risk to themselves, leave or abandon the children with seriously disturbed and/or mentally ill mothers.
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Father charged in toddler girl's blinding
BY JESSE JAMES DECONTO - Staff Writer
CARRBORO -- A father remains jailed on a child-abuse charge after police say he permanently blinded his 1-year-old daughter in an assault.
Christopher Ray McBride, 28, is being held on $500,000 bail, increased from an initial $125,000.
The child's mother, Darleene April Fernandez, who lived with McBride in a mobile home at 810 Old Fayetteville Road, is charged as an accessory after the fact. She was in jail with her bail set at $75,000.
"It's her child," said Carrboro Police Capt. Joel Booker. "By not reporting it, it makes her an accessory to it in the eyes of the law."
Booker declined to release details of the abuse or how long it lasted but said medical providers alerted the county Department of Social Services, which contacted police last week.
Booker said the girl suffered injury near the base of her skull and lost her eyesight.
"This might be an irreversible kind of thing," he said. "Our charges right now are based on expertise and information provided to us by medical authorities."
McBride has been in and out of prison. He was released in November 2003 after serving 11 months on charges of breaking and entering, embezzlement, assault, larceny and drug manufacturing. In 2004 and 2005, he was convicted of assaulting a female and resisting an officer and served a probation sentence until April 2006.
Prior to the child-abuse charge, he was scheduled for court next month on firearms possession and drug charges.
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